Quiet Atheist vs Militant Atheist

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I want people to be more open minded even if not Atheist so I try to widen their perspective by asking them simple logical questions then relating them to religion

That is understood. I wouldn't live a lie either, just to please some people. But as I understand militant atheism, it's more like JWs in reverse. And that's certainly not me. I'm no missionary to solicit unwanted advice. If the topic comes up, I speak my piece. But that's the thing, where I live, the topic isn't on the agenda. In my whole life of 50+ years, I had maybe one or two religious conversations. And these were over within minutes.