What is this "bullying and harassment"? I haven't followed these stories all that closely but as far as i'm aware the only pushback against anti-gay businesses has been boycotting - how can you have a problem with that, freedom of speech doesn't mean the right to have everyone agree with you, you can't expect people to not take their business elsewhere once they know that it's supporting someone who holds an opinion they find disgusting
“The larger the group, the more toxic, the more of your beauty as an individual you have to surrender for the sake of group thought. And when you suspend your individual beauty you also give up a lot of your humanity. You will do things in the name of a group that you would never do on your own. Injuring, hurting, killing, drinking are all part of it, because you've lost your identity, because you now owe your allegiance to this thing that's bigger than you are and that controls you.” - George Carlin