Stump the Christian?

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Personally, I don't care what words people use. They are just words. It's the meaning behind the specific use of those words that matters.

My friend can call me a fucking nazi bastard cunt features, and I know they are joking and I laugh along. But if my wife says I'm heartless, and I think she means it, that would utterly destroy me. It would make no difference if she said she I'm fucking heartless and I'm a nob.

If a random person on the street says "fucking nice day!" then I can smile and agree if I detect no malice. If they say "You are worthless", and I think they are serious, then I'd find that appalling.

Just my opinion