No one kill me............... I don't think "what about your health?" Is necessarily a put down. It could be one. People who care about you are probably honestly concerned about your health. Being overweight doesn't mean you're not gorgeous, and it isn't a negative reflexion of who you are or your character. It's not morally wrong or disgusting. It has no bearing on how awesome you are. It doesn't mean you aren't sexy.
But let's not pretend that it isn't a health risk. When I ask about someone's health it's always because I'm genuinely concerned.
But let's not pretend that it isn't a health risk. When I ask about someone's health it's always because I'm genuinely concerned.