Quote: What I'm curious about is the fact that I still cling to the idea of traditional marriage and traditional gender roles.
One has little to do with the other. The way the jesus freaks tell it, their boy never got married but hung out with hookers and was a leach who lived off the charity of others. As long as you don't believe a dead jew came back to life for your sins I'd say to live the way you and your finance want to live and screw jesus.
Welcome to the forum, btw.