it's a very tricky situation... but
I'm sure you'll do it right, you are a wise and thoughtful young woman with huge luggage of life. We know that we allow our families for a lot and sometimes we close our eyes to certain matters, but we also require more from loved ones precisely because we love them, that we have blood ties ... maybe now we have times that people care less about it and do not care at all, but ... the family is a family and will always be in our hearts and it doesn't matter if it's a black sheep in the family or not ...is just a family.
In my humble opinion, I would fight for my sister but on the other hand sometimes we have to choose a lesser evil ... so ...
In any case, do not do anything against yourself, against your convictions and against love ...
If you feel that you have to fight for your sister - Fight! I am with you with all my heart.
If you feel that you have enough - let go! I will support you and I'm sure that your husband all the more!
..but maybe you just need a break to rest and take a distance to this matter, to look with a different eye on everything, to find new arguments ... whatever - so take a break --- I'm with you !!!
Good luck ...
with love
I'm sure you'll do it right, you are a wise and thoughtful young woman with huge luggage of life. We know that we allow our families for a lot and sometimes we close our eyes to certain matters, but we also require more from loved ones precisely because we love them, that we have blood ties ... maybe now we have times that people care less about it and do not care at all, but ... the family is a family and will always be in our hearts and it doesn't matter if it's a black sheep in the family or not ...is just a family.
In my humble opinion, I would fight for my sister but on the other hand sometimes we have to choose a lesser evil ... so ...
In any case, do not do anything against yourself, against your convictions and against love ...
If you feel that you have to fight for your sister - Fight! I am with you with all my heart.
If you feel that you have enough - let go! I will support you and I'm sure that your husband all the more!
..but maybe you just need a break to rest and take a distance to this matter, to look with a different eye on everything, to find new arguments ... whatever - so take a break --- I'm with you !!!
Good luck ...
with love
