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trying to adopt an amoral worldview
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RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview
(January 18, 2021 at 8:48 pm)HappySkeptic Wrote: Since this has devolved into a question of "why does being a nice guy not attract girls", I'll give my two cents.

Most girls do like nice guys.  They also like confidence and success.  Miss those last two, and the first one doesn't matter.

But, there different types of "nice".  There is "I'm nice because I never contradict the crowd", and there's "I'm nice because I am confident in my values, and one of them is to not treat people badly".  The first doesn't impress anyone.  Having good ethics can be attractive to women and to friends.
Agreed.

There is nice and then there is being a doormat "nice".  The first is preferable.
  
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trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by bonbonbaron - January 16, 2021 at 7:30 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Gawdzilla Sama - January 16, 2021 at 7:34 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by bonbonbaron - January 16, 2021 at 7:37 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by arewethereyet - January 16, 2021 at 10:31 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 17, 2021 at 12:47 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Gawdzilla Sama - January 16, 2021 at 11:55 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by brewer - January 16, 2021 at 8:16 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by arewethereyet - January 16, 2021 at 8:20 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by GUBU - January 16, 2021 at 8:22 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by zwanzig - January 16, 2021 at 8:29 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Smaug - January 16, 2021 at 8:50 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by ignoramus - January 16, 2021 at 9:15 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Fireball - January 17, 2021 at 12:20 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Gawdzilla Sama - January 17, 2021 at 12:23 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by ignoramus - January 17, 2021 at 1:18 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Angrboda - January 17, 2021 at 11:50 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by The Grand Nudger - January 17, 2021 at 12:50 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by ignoramus - January 17, 2021 at 7:35 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rhizomorph13 - January 17, 2021 at 10:29 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 18, 2021 at 1:56 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by HappySkeptic - January 18, 2021 at 8:48 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by arewethereyet - January 18, 2021 at 8:52 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by John 6IX Breezy - January 25, 2021 at 11:39 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by vulcanlogician - January 19, 2021 at 1:54 am
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Drich - January 19, 2021 at 1:06 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by arewethereyet - January 19, 2021 at 1:12 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Ranjr - January 19, 2021 at 2:34 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 19, 2021 at 3:10 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rhizomorph13 - January 19, 2021 at 4:24 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 20, 2021 at 1:27 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 20, 2021 at 4:57 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by The Grand Nudger - January 21, 2021 at 12:07 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 21, 2021 at 12:52 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 21, 2021 at 3:43 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Simon Moon - January 25, 2021 at 2:40 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rhizomorph13 - January 25, 2021 at 4:44 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by Rev. Rye - January 25, 2021 at 11:54 pm
RE: trying to adopt an amoral worldview - by John 6IX Breezy - January 26, 2021 at 12:23 am

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