(January 18, 2021 at 8:48 pm)HappySkeptic Wrote: Since this has devolved into a question of "why does being a nice guy not attract girls", I'll give my two cents.Agreed.
Most girls do like nice guys. They also like confidence and success. Miss those last two, and the first one doesn't matter.
But, there different types of "nice". There is "I'm nice because I never contradict the crowd", and there's "I'm nice because I am confident in my values, and one of them is to not treat people badly". The first doesn't impress anyone. Having good ethics can be attractive to women and to friends.
There is nice and then there is being a doormat "nice". The first is preferable.
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