Ladies, are you Atheists?

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<Dark giggle> Oh fr0d0... if only you knew... and if only I could defend all of my points without placing a spotlight on myself in the process... on a stage facing an audience of rocket launchers, shrouded in the darkness. Don't bother asking me what I mean, fr0d0, for you will meet but silence.

See... things are not as simple as you would have them fr0d0... sadly I cannot draw a picture without also painting a bulls eye... But at least understand that personalities are irrespective of sex (and even gender) altogether (as BDSM should easily help illustrate).

Anyway, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity

Gender identity (otherwise known as core gender identity) is the gender(s), or lack thereof, a person self-identifies as. It is not necessarily based on biological fact, either real or perceived, nor is it always based on sexual orientation. The gender identities one may choose from include: male, female, both, somewhere in between ("third gender"), or neither.[1][2][3]

Gender identity ties in greatly with what you are trying to say... but you should know that it is a type of self-identification... which is what one perceives their personality to be. Personality is the base of gender identity, and so i absolutely cannot comprehend how you are considering it to be the other way around.

There is no 'female trait', and there is no 'male trait'. Name a single one trait that is not shared by both sexes... and by this I mean any single personality that is reliant on wether a person is male, or female, or intersex, or anything else. More logical than that: name a single personality trait that is exclusive to a single gender identity (which is built atop self-personality to begin with).