(May 8, 2018 at 2:08 pm)Crossless2.0 Wrote: My son is on the spectrum and hasn't once (that I know of) gone off the rails. If impulse control is the issue, that's one thing, and it can be improved. But being a cunt 'just because' is not acceptable.
How old is your son? Hammy didn’t always know about his diagnosis and by the time he was diagnosed he had never received intervention. There are skills that take time to be learned. Also, the spectrum is not so slim. Not everyone who’s on it will behave the same.
I don’t know about everyone else, but I will say one thing. Hammy might get a little ranty and become obnoxious at times, perhaps even erratic, but I have noticed that he does have to deal with certain people who really do seem to simply have it against him. Deep. It seems so personal sometimes. He gets taken down and then if he reacts it’s used against him. It’s like a loop that never stops. Not in all cases, but certainly in a lot of them. Those are my two cents.
Be well, hamz. From a friend to a friend: in every situation always stop to ask yourself, what can I learn from this and what can I do different. Forget what others do. Think about your own actions and then you’ll grow. After my divorce it could have been easy to sit back and own the victimization of it all, but I have chosen to accept my part (even if it wasn’t my fault) in order to have better results in future relationships. I hope you can reflect and grow. Love you, hun.
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