(June 2, 2018 at 11:19 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote:It was the same with me I became super lazy when they told me it was a negative symptom that was not my fault.(June 2, 2018 at 10:54 pm)Little lunch Wrote: Usually only people with mental health disorders pretend to have mental health disorders.
One thing that Hammy said a while back was, 'meet one person with Autism and you've met one person with Autism'.
This is true and it's the high functioning people who'll trick you into forgetting they have a disorder until they suddenly make you remember that they do.
Acknowledging certain behaviours is not the same as excusing them.
One of the biggest behaviour indicators for me with Hammy is that he doesn't get jokes or sarcasm very well.
It's unfortunate, but this forum is not a mental health facility, no matter how understanding a lot of the people here are.
I agree with you. It's why I always tried to be more patient with him than with most other people.
But something drastically changed with Hammy when he got his diagnosis. It's like it gave him license to intentionally ignore the social cues that he does recognize. Bring it up and you get a three page DM diatribe saying how you're an asshole and fuck you and good riddance and everyone who agrees with me is wrong and fuck them too.
Maybe he needs to hit rock bottom before he's going to be able to self evaluate.
I don't believe mental health approach by secular society on so many levels.
It's only when I reawakened spiritual fighting and abilities, was I able to combat the illness.
If I kept to what secular society telling me it's not my fault etc, I would be no where right now.
Hammy - consider seeking God's Name as the cure. Don't let people confuse you, you are smart enough to prove God to yourself and even to others.