(June 3, 2018 at 12:58 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Joods, it's Because you were more aggressive about it, and because you two already have a history. I assume he would have reacted the same way towards me otherwise.
I wasn't aggressive. I said what I initially said, in a nice manner. He chose to take it personally. He chooses to take everything personally. I am only responsible for what I say, not what he chooses to understand.
A 29 year old grown adult should be expected to behave accordingly. He doesn't need to be coddled, but apparently he's able to manipulate some of you into thinking that he deserves to be babied.
My 22 year old with Down syndrome acts more mature than he does. Oh and she also has Autism. You will forever enable him so he sees no reason to work on being a better person.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.