(September 19, 2015 at 10:56 pm)Exian Wrote: See, that's exactly where the issue lies. Wait, let me pause and address the fetish thing, it's not a fetish thing. Ok, the thing about being with a woman and saying "I like a larger lady" is that its either a death sentence or incredibly insulting. I can imagine they will be like "Well, you're with me and you like a larger lady... does that mean I'm larger!?!?" Or... something like that. I don't know.
I don't think I would ever say that though, because what the fuck? When would somebody naturally say that. But I guess just the idea that the reverse could happen with a thinner woman without much repercussion.
Use the word thick. That together with being with a woman who is confident about the way she looks and you should be fine. Tell her that she's beautiful, gorgeous, sexy just the way she is.
What I always wonder about this is, if you're with a woman who is the size you like and she decides to lose weight for health reasons...would you still be attracted to her?
I find human beings to be very confusing. So many people are so particular about what they find attractive. I often find myself wondering if there's something wrong with me or if I have a chemical imbalance or something. I find almost everyone to be physically attractive enough that I would really like to have sex with them. Some are sexier than others but...intelligence and personality honestly plays a huge part in that.