I know dotard we're saying almost the same thing. However I was saying that if you're not objectifying yourself you shouldn't have the blame. If you're wearing clothes to get attention that's objectifying, intentional or unintentional. If you're wearing clothes beacuse it's hot and that's all you had , you're not objectifying. There's no way for the obsever to 100% gauge the intent without interaction.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari