Objectifying women

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I don't think anyone said that a person is defined by their looks. The only thing that was spoken of was how a person's looks can change his/her circumstances in society.

If nobody has said this, then I will. Everything is defined by the individual as they perceive 'a thing'. People are not exempt from this.

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I'd guess very common. I would presume a person falls into the mindset due to frustration and or perversion possibly due to lack of meaningful stimulation. Not planned as in a meticulously made plan but driven into putting themselves in the situation. Then any potential victim happenning into the purpetrators path becomes a target.

If it was so common... then all the more reason for compulsory combat training for women

I frankly think it is as spontaneously decided upon as most thefts or decisions to buy those lovely shades for only 5.95$ when one goes grocery shopping In fact... I believe that most things we do are, rape not excluded. Why does it seem that rapists are treated as something vile or inhuman by some of my fellow forum goers? :S Am I misinterpreting them?

You don't commit rape because you a: do not want to and/or b: are resilient enough that you would not, and/or c: for a reason I do not think of at this time.

Personally I can appreciate beauty and sexuality without feeling any desire to go abuse a person. I couldn't think of a more contradictory response. To have such a perverse mindset is some serious sickness. Blokes that go to strip clubs etc objectifying women are fostering this sickness. It's all about skewing your nature so much you act on it un-naturally.

I wouldn't have anything to do with the sex industry. I think the reasoning for it being healthy are perverse and should be recognised as such. Healthy sex is found in a functioning inclusive community.

You fall under the A category: DO NOT WANT! I don't think that rapists necessarily have some serious sickness or a perverse mindset Blokes that go to strip clubs are what gives those women jobs... it's all about having people willing to do what we want in return for things they want. Strip clubs are just another thing... nothing either unnatural or skewed... simply something you do not

How is it perverse? Is it so different than using my own imagination for the same thing (albeit much weaker)... and actually watching things I find sexually appealing without needing to work for it so much? (and of course, the audio and video help the imagination when a girl turns something she wants upon herself... which is quite a bit nicer than forgetting what one was imagining from the pleasure of feeling it, and having to recreate the scenario from uncertainty at a loss of pleasure )