In this mind -
If you leave your door open and a burglar comes along and steals all your stuff, the burglar is of course in the wrong for stealing, but it would also make you foolish for leaving your door open in the first place. Even if no one came and stole your stuff, you would still be foolish for taking such a risk. What Tavarish is saying is comon sense. You're confusing the fact that rape is wrong and that the rapist is the one in the wrong, with the fact that people ought to be careful and use common sense. So yes, in a roundabout way, if you wear revealing clothes in a situation where there are potential rapists around, or you walk down the street at night on your own in a dodgy area, you are asking for trouble. Does it mean you deserve to be raped? Certainly not. Does it make you foolish for taking a risk? Yes of course. You're putting words into Tavarish's mouth in an inappropriate way and all he's doing is giving you common sense advice.
If you leave your door open and a burglar comes along and steals all your stuff, the burglar is of course in the wrong for stealing, but it would also make you foolish for leaving your door open in the first place. Even if no one came and stole your stuff, you would still be foolish for taking such a risk. What Tavarish is saying is comon sense. You're confusing the fact that rape is wrong and that the rapist is the one in the wrong, with the fact that people ought to be careful and use common sense. So yes, in a roundabout way, if you wear revealing clothes in a situation where there are potential rapists around, or you walk down the street at night on your own in a dodgy area, you are asking for trouble. Does it mean you deserve to be raped? Certainly not. Does it make you foolish for taking a risk? Yes of course. You're putting words into Tavarish's mouth in an inappropriate way and all he's doing is giving you common sense advice.