Quote:The 'damaged goods', it's amusing your mind leaped there immediately. Well, disgusting might be a better word for it. It illustrates that your thought processes go exactly what I described above. Your girl got raped, so she isn't a 'nice girl' anymore, and since she's just an object, dump her and get a new one.
the reason in jumped into my mind so quickly is because I actually read something about it in The Murderer Next Door by David Buss.
Buss Wrote:Indeed many men whose partners have been raped express the feeling of being left with "damaged goods." They reported that they cannot bear the thought of remaining with a woman who has been sexually violated by another man. according to one study more then 80% of couples in which the woman was raped during their relationship end up breaking up.P.129 also cites-- Leyton, Hunting Humans
No one, is saying it is the woman's fault and hell, it's not something that is simple to avoid.
Well, if she's leaving. I'm reading a book a Natural History of Rape suggests that rape is not about power it is either an adaptation or by-product of an adaptation for a male to have more children. thoughts?