In this mind -
You seem to have a weird, perpetual victim mentality. You tend to see everything as an issue of victim & aggressor. In your mind, one is either a victim, or an aggressor or on the side of the aggressor. You don't understand that it is perfectly possible and reasonable to give common sense advice to a victim, without being an aggressor or on the side of the aggressor. It's all very black and white to you, which is why you don't get that being a victim doesn't exempt you from being responsible for taking care and avoiding risks. You say that you have vounselled rape victims. I wonder whether or not you have ever advised any of them to try and avoid risk, or if you told them to go ahead and do anything, be anywhere at any time, and pay no mind to the risks. If it's the latter, then what you're doing is putting them in danger. I don't know how many times you've been told already that common sense applies to us all, including potential victims. If you don't want to be raped, then you have a personal responsibility to yourself, which is to take care, and not to blame the whole world when it all goes wrong for you. It's classic victim mentality, you are a professional victim.
You seem to have a weird, perpetual victim mentality. You tend to see everything as an issue of victim & aggressor. In your mind, one is either a victim, or an aggressor or on the side of the aggressor. You don't understand that it is perfectly possible and reasonable to give common sense advice to a victim, without being an aggressor or on the side of the aggressor. It's all very black and white to you, which is why you don't get that being a victim doesn't exempt you from being responsible for taking care and avoiding risks. You say that you have vounselled rape victims. I wonder whether or not you have ever advised any of them to try and avoid risk, or if you told them to go ahead and do anything, be anywhere at any time, and pay no mind to the risks. If it's the latter, then what you're doing is putting them in danger. I don't know how many times you've been told already that common sense applies to us all, including potential victims. If you don't want to be raped, then you have a personal responsibility to yourself, which is to take care, and not to blame the whole world when it all goes wrong for you. It's classic victim mentality, you are a professional victim.