Eilonnwy -
Ironically, you are confusing the two. I too am saying that when someone is a victim of rape, you blame the rapist and not the victim. However I'm also saying that if you don't acknowledge personal responsibility, you're a professional victim / victim mentality. Your definitions are correct, which shows that you know the difference, which makes it even more astonishing how you still confuse the two. You interpret the acknowledgement that one should be self responsible as victim blaming.
Ironically, you are confusing the two. I too am saying that when someone is a victim of rape, you blame the rapist and not the victim. However I'm also saying that if you don't acknowledge personal responsibility, you're a professional victim / victim mentality. Your definitions are correct, which shows that you know the difference, which makes it even more astonishing how you still confuse the two. You interpret the acknowledgement that one should be self responsible as victim blaming.