Cijs-
You are a narcissist. Deep down inside, I knew it but I was fighting against it, hoping that wasn't true. In a period of three days, you have successfully managed to tear apart and permanently destroy this relationship.
Since I can't financially leave right now, I have to stay. But also, I stay because of the kids that I love so fucking much. Nope, I didn't give birth to them, but I have been their mother for the last four years. I AM "in loco parentis". And while you and your ex wife have failed miserably at parenting, the children have flourished under steady, loving guidance from a stepmother who cries nightly for them knowing that if I leave now, they will not be allowed to come with me or see me. They will be left alone, against court orders and will suffer because you and their birth mother are cruel, selfish people who don't deserve them.
You lie and then when confronted with evidence of the lie, make no apology or even offer any sort of remorse. You fail miserably to show emotion unless you copy it from someone else. There is nothing genuine about you because like every other narcissist, you take your cues from the exact same fucking book.
Your wake up call came this morning when I told you we were through. Roommates it is because you don't deserve someone who always puts your kids first and who loves them like they are hers.
Fuck you.
You are a narcissist. Deep down inside, I knew it but I was fighting against it, hoping that wasn't true. In a period of three days, you have successfully managed to tear apart and permanently destroy this relationship.
Since I can't financially leave right now, I have to stay. But also, I stay because of the kids that I love so fucking much. Nope, I didn't give birth to them, but I have been their mother for the last four years. I AM "in loco parentis". And while you and your ex wife have failed miserably at parenting, the children have flourished under steady, loving guidance from a stepmother who cries nightly for them knowing that if I leave now, they will not be allowed to come with me or see me. They will be left alone, against court orders and will suffer because you and their birth mother are cruel, selfish people who don't deserve them.
You lie and then when confronted with evidence of the lie, make no apology or even offer any sort of remorse. You fail miserably to show emotion unless you copy it from someone else. There is nothing genuine about you because like every other narcissist, you take your cues from the exact same fucking book.
Your wake up call came this morning when I told you we were through. Roommates it is because you don't deserve someone who always puts your kids first and who loves them like they are hers.
Fuck you.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
