CIJS -
They want to be here. They need to be here. The emotional detachment by not only her, but you, is astounding. I feel like I am the only one who cares. They feel the same way. You've been told since December that you need to make them a priority, not your stupid electronics. You've been told since 2013 that you need to step the hell up. This isn't doing you favors, in their eyes and in mine.
When June 2022 comes around, I am done. The last one will have been through the final year of school and I will be moving on. They will probably come with me since they don't want to be with her and they don't want to be with you either. But in order to be with me, they have to be with you - at least for now. You've been given more than enough time to get your head out of your ass. It's why I am only here for them now. There is no "us" and there hasn't been since January, so I wish you'd just see that and realize that calling me hun, dear and babe, just makes me ill. I am so relieved at night when you go up to your room and just leave me alone. Your ignorance has, in effect, pushed three people away from you. I haven't uttered "I love you" in your direction for months now and there's a reason behind that. You've been told this several times now, yet you persist and you keep thinking things are okay. I wish you could read this and understand that this is your final wake up call. You have a court hearing in three months. Get. Your. Fucking. Shit. Together.
Also, CIJS -
Working is important. Working to earn a living, working on relationships (including parenting and friendships), working on a hobby - whatever. The key word is "working". If you wanna have a decent life with anyone, including yourself, you must work at it. Being lazy - at whatever - isn't going to cut it. At least for this gal it isn't.
Another CIJS -
One thing I could never understand is how some grown adults successfully manage to manipulate their parents into supporting them financially so they can continue to be lazy and not work. And if their parents aren't paying their way through life, they manage to manipulate the government into doing it. I just don't get that. There are people with disabilities who have to depend on others financially and they need the assistance. I'm not talking about those people.
In short - the laziness of certain individuals has hit an all time high and the karma bus is about to pull into town and deliver some packages.
They want to be here. They need to be here. The emotional detachment by not only her, but you, is astounding. I feel like I am the only one who cares. They feel the same way. You've been told since December that you need to make them a priority, not your stupid electronics. You've been told since 2013 that you need to step the hell up. This isn't doing you favors, in their eyes and in mine.
When June 2022 comes around, I am done. The last one will have been through the final year of school and I will be moving on. They will probably come with me since they don't want to be with her and they don't want to be with you either. But in order to be with me, they have to be with you - at least for now. You've been given more than enough time to get your head out of your ass. It's why I am only here for them now. There is no "us" and there hasn't been since January, so I wish you'd just see that and realize that calling me hun, dear and babe, just makes me ill. I am so relieved at night when you go up to your room and just leave me alone. Your ignorance has, in effect, pushed three people away from you. I haven't uttered "I love you" in your direction for months now and there's a reason behind that. You've been told this several times now, yet you persist and you keep thinking things are okay. I wish you could read this and understand that this is your final wake up call. You have a court hearing in three months. Get. Your. Fucking. Shit. Together.
Also, CIJS -
Working is important. Working to earn a living, working on relationships (including parenting and friendships), working on a hobby - whatever. The key word is "working". If you wanna have a decent life with anyone, including yourself, you must work at it. Being lazy - at whatever - isn't going to cut it. At least for this gal it isn't.
Another CIJS -
One thing I could never understand is how some grown adults successfully manage to manipulate their parents into supporting them financially so they can continue to be lazy and not work. And if their parents aren't paying their way through life, they manage to manipulate the government into doing it. I just don't get that. There are people with disabilities who have to depend on others financially and they need the assistance. I'm not talking about those people.
In short - the laziness of certain individuals has hit an all time high and the karma bus is about to pull into town and deliver some packages.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
