(September 22, 2016 at 12:42 am)*Deidre* Wrote:(September 22, 2016 at 12:31 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Good intentions aren't meaningless though because I mean... the expression "It's the thought that counts" when someone buys me a present out of love and generosity for my birthday but I don't like it carries a lot of meaning for me. It's the act of trying to be generous that matters the most to me, not whether they succeed. Kindness is effortful.
Think we're talking past each other, so...never mind. lol
Oh I thought we were agreeing. So I guess we are talking past each other lol.