(December 5, 2016 at 11:57 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote: I want straight advice. I just only want it from people who can handle it when I don't necessarily agree with it. I can handle it all. I just might not agree. And that's fine with me. I don't think anyone has to agree. If I get labelled as being dismissive or not being able to handle constructive criticism when I don't agree with it then I'm not the one who has a problem with criticism or disagreement. It's highly ironic.
Y'know, I've given you unsolicited advice a few times, and you've waved it away with little consideration, and in one case last week, with a clear misunderstanding of what was being said. Whether or not you're actually dismissive is something that is inside you; I can only go by how you behave. And you do come across as dismissive.
That's fine; it costs me little to try and help anyone, so whether or not my advice is heeded is largely irrelevant to me. It's your circus and your monkeys, not mine. Handle your business.
