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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 5:47 am
Steve, for starters, I'm glad you're safe. I won't say I'm glad you're okay, because I think you need to be getting some help. It is crucial right now, more than ever and I don't think going through this alone is helping. I know you hurt and I know it sucks, but if the last twenty or so pages hasn't shown you the outpouring of love people have for you, then nothing will. You have support. You have people who care about what happens to you and who are genuinely concerned for your safety and wellbeing. Allow yourself to grieve but also allow yourself to talk to a therapist who can give you coping skills so that the next time you start feeling like this, you can handle it.
Please get better. Sam would not want to see you this way. Get some professional help and if you can't do it for yourself, do it for Sam. Know that you are loved here and you gave us quite a scare. And please, check in with someone here so that we know how you're doing.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 6:40 am
It's good to hear you're okay, man Was worried!
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The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 6:59 am
(June 2, 2016 at 11:05 pm)Stimbo Wrote: Well, I'm standing in Michelle's at the moment, from where I was kicked out this afternoon. One minute I'm in my flat fast asleep on vodka, suddenly there's the crashing of my front door getting smashed in and police flashlights in my eyes. Long story short, I had a huge ass chat with the three officers attending and they were very understanding. They phoned Michelle to tell her I'm okay and find out if she could be with me or me go there. Upshot is I'm okay, as in physically. Emotionally I'm still just numb. I want to apologise to everyone for all the drama I caused and thank you all for going to so much trouble for stupid old me.
Oh, thank FSM you're okay, Steve! :: hugs :: I'm so sorry for you pain. We love you! <3
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 7:04 am
Hey Stim, glad you're still with us. Maybe you and ETOH do not make a good partnership. Give it some thought when your head is clear.
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June 3, 2016 at 7:06 am
I just read this commotion for the first time.
I missed everything.
Anyway, Stimbo, you're the first person I liked and felt comfortable with when I first started here.
You wear your heart on you're sleeve. It's what everyone likes about you and it's what's doing your head in.
I'm sorry, but I can't help but feel mad at you.
Throw that fucking booze away and get a change of scenery.
Maybe start getting a little more involved here again. Find a new cause. I dunno.
Love ya, man.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 7:19 am
Fuck awkward hugs. I just wanna hug everyone. Our Steve is still with us! And As I read back through these pages, fuck, yo. This group of people right here is wonderful. Like I said earlier, this is real. The care and support, it's IRL. We're here for you, Stim.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 7:21 am
I remember when I first started here. It was a bad time in my life and I was a mess. I remember everyone writing me off as a stupid when this one person was the most understanding and loving person in the planet - it was none other than Stimbo.
You're going through a hard time man, don't do anything stupid, you are sincerly one of the very few people that has had a hand in helping me. The happiness that I have in my life right now, the motivation that I have in my life right now - you've played a part in getting me here. You have a part in any success I have had or the successes I will have. You don't realize how important your role has been in my life. I love you so much. I wish I could talk to you. Stay strong.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 7:37 am
Glad to see you're still with us, Stimbo. Please, get some help, and don't hesitate to reach out if you feel this way again. We're here for you.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 8:15 am
I've been busy with school so haven't hand time to post on forums. But yesterday I came on and saw this. I was really worried. I'm glad you are alive. I hope you do seek help from professionals. I hope things go up from here on out for you.
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RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 3, 2016 at 8:27 am
MK, welcome back!
What are you studying at school?
Between your 6 daily prayer sessions, I mean? hehe
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