Kim Davis?

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

[bennyboy]

[color=#333333]Alright, listen up. You know why Kim Davis pisses me off so much? It's because I'm gay, I was so happy gay marriage got legalized in America. Then, all of a sudden I look at the television, I see that there's people parading this horrible woman around, because she refuses to uphold the law I was so happy about.

This is something almost everyone here would agree with.

I don't believe I am unintelligent, people here say they don't believe I am unintelligent either. To make me out to be some immature, petulant little kid is just insulting. I've put a lot of thought into a lot of the shit that I've written on this forum, then it gets trashed because I said something which offends others.

You've gotten trashed because you've escalated beyond any reasonable level. Quotes can be had-- it's pretty obvious.

You can go fuck yourself Judi, I really don't care if someone abused you, I really don't give a single solitary fuck. I am not the person who abused you. You can use all of the things I have said about myself, which aren't things that someone should use against someone else, because they're personal things. Fuck you. You just go around telling me to get off this forum, you're just a scared and broken basket case abuse victim, making me out to be some big horrible asshole. You can get the hell out of here and get some help, because I'm beast. I'm here doing my thing, that aint your problem. You can leave this forum now

If you want people not to "make you out" to be an asshole, stop using asshole language. Your sentiments about Kim Davis are probably echoed by about 99% of the people on AF; there is total support for gay rights here, and a general aversion to Republican fucktardism. Your way of communicating is what is bringing the wrath on you, and you can completely eliminate all the negative responses by self-editing to come across less hostile.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

[color=#333333]Alright, listen up. You know why Kim Davis pisses me off so much? It's because I'm gay, I was so happy gay marriage got legalized in America. Then, all of a sudden I look at the television, I see that there's people parading this horrible woman around, because she refuses to uphold the law I was so happy about.

This is something almost everyone here would agree with.

I don't believe I am unintelligent, people here say they don't believe I am unintelligent either. To make me out to be some immature, petulant little kid is just insulting. I've put a lot of thought into a lot of the shit that I've written on this forum, then it gets trashed because I said something which offends others.

You've gotten trashed because you've escalated beyond any reasonable level.  Quotes can be had-- it's pretty obvious.

You can go fuck yourself Judi, I really don't care if someone abused you, I really don't give a single solitary fuck. I am not the person who abused you. You can use all of the things I have said about myself, which aren't things that someone should use against someone else, because they're personal things. Fuck you. You just go around telling me to get off this forum, you're just a scared and broken basket case abuse victim, making me out to be some big horrible asshole. You can get the hell out of here and get some help, because I'm beast. I'm here doing my thing, that aint your problem. You can leave this forum now

If you want people not to "make you out" to be an asshole, stop using asshole language.  Your sentiments about Kim Davis are probably echoed by about 99% of the people on AF; there is total support for gay rights here, and a general aversion to Republican fucktardism.  Your way of communicating is what is bringing the wrath on you, and you can completely eliminate all the negative responses by self-editing to come across less hostile.

You're right about coming off less hostile. Let's not fight anymore. I said a lot of things where were harsh, which I believed in at the time. I don't believe in the continuous bickering that's become of it. I'd like it if we could all just make peace and not do this anymore. It would really make me happy to see people not refer to the feminism thread anymore, because I didn't say anything in there against "a group of people" which reflects any sort of prejudice. I was speaking up against corrupt feminists who damage gender relations. Go watch some thunderfoot videos about feminism, I can't name everything that's wrong with it off the top of my head. 

The reason all of this is happening is because of that thread. I was trying to speak up about something, the very first day I came onto this forum. The very first thing I got when I came to this forum was berated for what I was saying. I was treated like an immature little bastard, I took it back out on them in some equally harshly worded ways. Now it's come to this, this is all what it has boiled down to. Just a bunch of corrupt bullshit, which attacks no real issues and just makes everything worse. I would love for it to stop, I would love to just get along with people on this forum. I guess when I talk sometimes, I am very honest and I put a lot of my true feelings into what I say, I am very honest and true to myself in what I write. Sometimes it gets to me when my ideas get misrepresented, or when I mislead people with my words. In the end of the day, it shouldn't matter at all. Let's all just put it behind us, let all that shit be over with.

[drfuzzy]

DFMD:

Yes, let's dial this back a little.  When you're not on a rant, you write very well and present some interesting questions. 
Just grow some thicker skin - when someone disagrees with what you write, it usually isn't personal.  And some topics do get heated around here . . . but step away from the death fantasies, ok,?  You see what kind of response they get.

I'm gay, and I think Kim Davis is total brainless slime in a repulsive package.  But would you really want her to die?  Wouldn't it be better to fantasize about public humiliation, and being absolutely forced to face that her actions were nothing more than hypocritical bigoted bullshittery, and admit it to the entire American public?  You could run a long way with how that could happen, and in THIS scenario, she would learn something!

She will be a poster child for bigotry in the history books.  And we have seen wonderful progress.

[Joods]

Alright, listen up. You know why Kim Davis pisses me off so much? It's because I'm gay, I was so happy gay marriage got legalized in America. Then, all of a sudden I look at the television, I see that there's people parading this horrible woman around, because she refuses to uphold the law I was so happy about. You know how that makes me feel? I am mad because she is getting attention and I'm being ignored. It makes me feel further degraded, for something I simply am which is completely benign. There's all sorts of evil people in the world, kind of like you Judi. What I'm really saying is that I am really the evil one, but I'm going to call you evil because I can't stand that someone is seeing through my bullshit. I'm going to project and blameshift because I'm a narcissist and I must not look bad to anyone. I look at the spiteful stuff that you write towards me, I look at the way that people say that I am a threat to the world around me. I can't handle that you are exposing me for the fake that I am. I am perfect, don't you know that? It takes my supply away from ME!! I'd like you to ask yourself who the real threat is; I'd like you to stop showing me in a negative light, while I continue to get my supply and wish harm on others. I don't do anything wrong. I am DFM and I am perfect. it makes me so depressed seeing people say that I am just a sad little man, scared and bewildered of the world. I hate that I've been found out and I hate that people uncovered the real me! I don't believe I am unintelligent, people here say they don't believe I am unintelligent either.I am PERFECT. How dare you expose my flaws!  To make me out to be some immature, petulant little kid is just insulting. I've put a lot of thought into a lot of the shit that I've written on this forum, then it gets trashed because I said something which offends others.I don't hate that I've said some really horrible, shitty things about people that I don't know. What I hate is that I got called out for it.

You can go fuck yourself Judi, I really don't care if someone abused you, I really don't give a single solitary fuck. I don't care about anyone else, as long as I am getting my supply by writing hateful things about others. I am not the person who abused you. I am perfect. I don't do anything wrong!  You can use all of the things I have said about myself, which aren't things that someone should use against someone else, because they're personal things. I am the only one who is allowed to use someone's personal stuff against them and how dare you do it to me! Fuck you. You just go around telling me to get off this forum, you're just a scared and broken basket case abuse victim, making me out to be some big horrible asshole. Fuck You. You have exposed me for what I am and you have used my own tactics against me and I don't like it. I'm going to sit here and act like a five year old until I get my way! You can get the hell out of here and get some help, because I'm beast.You can get the hell out of here and get some help because I don't need help. I'm perfect and I never do anything wrong. I'm here doing my thing, that aint your problem. I'm projecting and gas lighting and getting my supply and I'm tired of you exposing me for the psychopathic narcissist I really am! You can leave this forum now   I am tired of you exposing me for the monster that I really am. I wish you'd go away and let me continue wishing ill-will and horrific death on people.

Red emphasis above is to translate narcissism speak. (What he's really saying)

I feel so sorry for the people who have to communicate with you in real life. So I translated the above for people who aren't familiar with how to deal with a narcissist, which is exactly what you are. You absolutely hate it when that mask of yours gets ripped off and you are exposed for the pathetic person you really are. 

When you aren't raging, you can actually make some decent posts. However, it all goes to shit the moment someone disagrees with you or the moment you stop thinking before writing. When you get called out for it, you then profusely apologize and want everything to go back to before you got called out. I have seen you do this about five or six times now and I laugh every time I see your fake apology posts because I know that within days (sometimes hours) you will be right back at saying something that's worse than the last thing you said. 

So, you get your supply. You get your attention and you bask in the light because no matter how assholish you act, as long as you have the spotlight on you, you don't care about who you hurt or what sorts of nasty, death-wish filled comments you make. At least, not until you get called out for it. I've exposed you for what you really are and isn't that what you're really angry about? You aren't sorry for anything you've said. You're only sorry you got caught.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

DFMD:

Yes, let's dial this back a little.  When you're not on a rant, you write very well and present some interesting questions. 
Just grow some thicker skin - when someone disagrees with what you write, it usually isn't personal.  And some topics do get heated around here . . . but step away from the death fantasies, ok,?  You see what kind of response they get.

I'm gay, and I think Kim Davis is total brainless slime in a repulsive package.  But would you really want her to die?  Wouldn't it be better to fantasize about public humiliation, and being absolutely forced to face that her actions were nothing more than hypocritical bigoted bullshittery, and admit it to the entire American public?  You could run a long way with how that could happen, and in THIS scenario, she would learn something!

She will be a poster child for bigotry in the history books.  And we have seen wonderful progress.

Well, that's an interesting philosophical point. More would come out of publicly humiliating Kim Davis and proving her wrong. That is a constructive way of dealing with my thoughts towards her. I appreciate your input.

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Alright, listen up. You know why Kim Davis pisses me off so much? It's because I'm gay, I was so happy gay marriage got legalized in America. Then, all of a sudden I look at the television, I see that there's people parading this horrible woman around, because she refuses to uphold the law I was so happy about. You know how that makes me feel? I am mad because she is getting attention and I'm being ignored. It makes me feel further degraded, for something I simply am which is completely benign. There's all sorts of evil people in the world, kind of like you Judi. What I'm really saying is that I can't stand that someone is seeing through my bullshit, so I'm going to project and blameshift because I'm a narcissist and I must not look bad to anyone. I look at the spiteful stuff that you write towards me, I look at the way that people say that I am a threat to the world around me. I can't handle that you are exposing me for the fake that I am. I am perfect, don't you know that? It takes my supply away from ME!! I'd like you to ask yourself who the real threat is; I'd like you to stop showing me in a negative light, while I continue to get my supply and wish harm on others. I don't do anything wrong. I am DFM and I am perfect. it makes me so depressed seeing people say that I am just a sad little man, scared and bewildered of the world. I hate that I've been found out and I hate that people uncovered the real me! I don't believe I am unintelligent, people here say they don't believe I am unintelligent either.I am PERFECT. How dare you expose my flaws!  To make me out to be some immature, petulant little kid is just insulting. I've put a lot of thought into a lot of the shit that I've written on this forum, then it gets trashed because I said something which offends others.I don't hate that I've said some really horrible, shitty things about people that I don't know. What I hate is that I got called out for it.

You can go fuck yourself Judi, I really don't care if someone abused you, I really don't give a single solitary fuck. I don't care about anyone else, as long as I am getting my supply by writing hateful things about others. I am not the person who abused you. I am perfect. I don't do anything wrong!  You can use all of the things I have said about myself, which aren't things that someone should use against someone else, because they're personal things. I am the only one who is allowed to use someone's personal stuff against them and how dare you do it to me! Fuck you. You just go around telling me to get off this forum, you're just a scared and broken basket case abuse victim, making me out to be some big horrible asshole. Fuck You. You have exposed me for what I am and you have used my own tactics against me and I don't like it. I'm going to sit here and act like a five year old until I get my way! You can get the hell out of here and get some help, because I'm beast.You can get the hell out of here and get some help because I don't need help. I'm perfect and I never do anything wrong. I'm here doing my thing, that aint your problem. I'm projecting and gas lighting and getting my supply and I'm tired of you exposing me for the psychopathic narcissist I really am! You can leave this forum now   I am tired of you exposing me for the monster that I really am. I wish you'd go away and let me continue wishing ill-will and horrific death on people.

Red emphasis above is to translate narcissism speak. (What he's really saying)

I feel so sorry for the people who have to communicate with you in real life. So I translated the above for people who aren't familiar with how to deal with a narcissist, which is exactly what you are. You absolutely hate it when that mask of yours gets ripped off and you are exposed for the pathetic person you really are. 

When you aren't raging, you can actually make some decent posts. However, it all goes to shit the moment someone disagrees with you or the moment you stop thinking before writing. When you get called out for it, you then profusely apologize and want everything to go back to before you got called out. I have seen you do this about five or six times now and I laugh every time I see your fake apology posts because I know that within days (sometimes hours) you will be right back at saying something that's worse than the last thing you said. 

So, you get your supply. You get your attention and you bask in the light because no matter how assholish you act, as long as you have the spotlight on you, you don't care about who you hurt or what sorts of nasty, death-wish filled comments you make. At least, not until you get called out for it. I've exposed you for what you really are and isn't that what you're really angry about? You aren't sorry for anything you've said. You're only sorry you got caught.

tl;dr

[God of Mr. Hanky]

I dunno - this guy does have serious anger problems, and venting such disturbing thoughts here is profoundly unwise, but I hate to see people going so hard on him because he does appear to be making efforts to deal with those problems. Of course he should be doing this in therapy instead of here, no argument on that point.

I can understand how a young man who feels very isolated and isn't able to get the help he needs, and I also know how some will try, but never find any professionals who are capable or willing to help them in any good way. When you are alone, bewildered by the world, and have the perception that the actions of others are destroying any chances you may ever have of survival or happiness, then it really can feel like they are doing worse violence against you than the disturbing acts which he describes. I felt that way while I was struggling to get a decent education, but then I never acted on such horrific fantasies. As I matured I became chronically depressed, but more sensisitized to violence, and then I realized that there could never be any justice when people commit this. I truly hate Dick Cheney, but the last thing I would want to do is to give him the martyr's crown for his country (whichever one that really is). I hope DFDM lives to understand, and before it's too late, that violence is no good revenge against the powerful, and that when you are small the only good recourse you have is to go on living as best as you can despite the evil which they've assaulted your life with. Survival is the best revenge!

I, along with many here, have had more than their share of the shit sandwich of life. I have had heartache like no one here knows. I am going through some issues with a seriously damaged person in my personal life. That said, it is quite one thing to show disdain for someone - especially someone who has made the news in a bad way - by saying you don't like them or their views, but to wish a person dead, to want to hear the crushing of their bones, that is a level of disturbance that is so epic, people need to view it as a red flag. 

It is time for people (not directed at any one person in particular) to start paying very close attention to the mindset of others on here. When individuals have that much hatred for people they don't even know and they state the horrific things that we have heard all over the forums for the last few weeks, then caution needs to be taken. No, I'm not going overboard with this. Clearly there is some very disturbed thinking and someone should be paying closer attention and not providing excuses for the thought pattern of such a person. Normal people don't go around thinking vile, abhorrent thoughts about other people and wishing they were dead, simply because they aren't liked.

Not saying you went overboard, and I really don't want to be critical, it's only that this dialogue brought to my attention how understanding (not blind sympathy) is as useful a defense as caution (know your enemy). I'm no authority on this matter, but then I've watched society slide down to a dangerous level of non-understanding, and it's no more safe for it. People who would go on violent rampages against people who they don't even know personally should not be coddled, but the fact that more of them are acting out their violent fantasies today is a sign that too many are not being helped before it's too late. 

Perhaps the problem is that web communications are somehow helping to alienate certain people more quickly and effectively than help them (that's just a guess, but it's a factor concurrent with the recent generation)?

I'm very sorry your life has been so difficult, and believe this - I know first-hand about many of life's difficulties, particularly heartache, mental and physical suffering.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

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[Joods]

I, along with many here, have had more than their share of the shit sandwich of life. I have had heartache like no one here knows. I am going through some issues with a seriously damaged person in my personal life. That said, it is quite one thing to show disdain for someone - especially someone who has made the news in a bad way - by saying you don't like them or their views, but to wish a person dead, to want to hear the crushing of their bones, that is a level of disturbance that is so epic, people need to view it as a red flag. 

It is time for people (not directed at any one person in particular) to start paying very close attention to the mindset of others on here. When individuals have that much hatred for people they don't even know and they state the horrific things that we have heard all over the forums for the last few weeks, then caution needs to be taken. No, I'm not going overboard with this. Clearly there is some very disturbed thinking and someone should be paying closer attention and not providing excuses for the thought pattern of such a person. Normal people don't go around thinking vile, abhorrent thoughts about other people and wishing they were dead, simply because they aren't liked.

Not saying you went overboard, and I really don't want to be critical, it's only that this dialogue brought to my attention how understanding (not blind sympathy) is as useful a defense as caution (know your enemy). I'm no authority on this matter, but then I've watched society slide down to a dangerous level of non-understanding, and it's no more safe for it. People who would go on violent rampages against people who they don't even know personally should not be coddled, but the fact that more of them are acting out their violent fantasies today is a sign that too many are not being helped before it's too late. Perhaps it's that web communications are somehow helping to alienate them more quickly and effectively than help them (that's just a guess, but that's a factor concurrent with the recent generation)?

I'm very sorry your life has been so difficult, and believe this - I know first-hand about many of life's difficulties!

Thank you for your honesty here. I agree, society has gone to hell. 2015 is the year of being offended. Shootings, bombings and other acts of terrorism have reached an all-time high this year and it's sad. It is sad that a new generation of people are going to be witnessing a world of such profound hate and misery. Aside from all of that, quite a few people have not only suggested helpful things, but at the same time, have been dismissed for making those suggestions. Help only comes if one admits they need it. 

Believe me, with all of the things I have been through in the last decade, I could just as easily hate everyone around me and wish horrible things on the world, but at the end of the day, none of that matters. What matters is that I love my kids and I am doing the best job possible to be the best mom possible. Tomorrow isn't promised and the past can't be changed. What makes a difference is how a person is living "in the now" or in the present. Being in a constant state of negativity drains a person of the good they could be doing, if not for themselves, but for others.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

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I just wrote out a reply, it erased everything I wrote.