Member Awards 2015

[Silver]

Yea that sounds really respectful.

It is.

How can it not be?

I can be open minded, more open minded than most, but I will not and cannot wade through nasty vag for a good picture of a penis.

[Excited Penguin]

 Maybe we expect everyone in there to behave as an adult.

I don't see what your point about behaving like an adult is. Maybe you could elaborate on that. As it is, I have nothing to say, since I don't catch your meaning.

How many people in a69 do you think are straight EP? 

I don't know and don't care to. What does that have to do with anything? Are you implying you assume everyone is straight over there because everyone is? That's the wrong way to look at it. There are enough people expressing other types of sexualities in the world than heterosexuality to warrant a different way of doing things. Otherwise you are intentionally targeting straight people with your services, which is homophobic to say the least.

[Losty]

Yea that sounds really respectful.

It is.  

How can it not be?

I can be open minded, more open minded than most, but I will not and cannot wade through nasty vag for a good picture of a penis.

Calling women's bodies nasty just because you're not attracted to women isn't respectful. It's rude. I wouldn't expect you to know the difference.

[Losty]

 Maybe we expect everyone in there to behave as an adult.

I don't see what your point about behaving like an adult is. Maybe you could elaborate on that. As it is, I have nothing to say, since I don't catch your meaning.

How many people in a69 do you think are straight EP? 

I don't know and don't care to. What does that have to do with anything? Are you implying you assume everyone is straight over there because everyone is? That's the wrong way to look at it. There are enough people expressing other types of sexualities in the world than heterosexuality to warrant a different way of doing things. Otherwise you are intentionally targeting straight people with your services, which is homophobic to say the least.

I'm not straight so I probably don't see everyone as straight. I think there might be an even balance of straight vs not straight.

[Catholic_Lady]

There's a picure of my dick in there and I'm really crap at figuring out how to use the HIDE tags, that should be all the convincing you need.

Just ask one of the mods to fix it.

Hold out for that. The rest is just cheap shots at something that should mean so much more.

Hey now. However you feel your body should be shared, and however quickly some of us can snap off a phone shot, I resent any of my DSLR pics being called "cheap" for whatever reason.

No one here has to be in love with me for me to be sharing a moment of intimacy with them in a meaningful way. I take time with my camera shots. They're a part of me. Sharing them with many instead of just one doesn't make them cheap. It makes me bold for opening a private part of myself up to other people.



And as for there being a lot of penis on the thread, I enjoy it. I enjoy seeing *how* others capture themselves in images too.

To clarify, when I said "cheap shots" to MK I was not saying it like "cheap pictures" lol. I'm sure you're all beautiful. I meant the act itself of admiring another person's naked body is cheapened when it is not someone you love and are committed to. I get that this is not what ya'll believe, but I wasn't saying this to the general population of AF. I was saying it to MK, a Muslim who has very similar views as myself when it comes to human sexuality.

[Silver]

Calling women's bodies nasty just because you're not attracted to women isn't respectful. It's rude. I wouldn't expect you to know the difference.

The woman's body is beautiful, but that particular part of it is not...at least not to a gay man who is veritably gay.

[Edwardo Piet]

I voted for the same person 3 times lol.

One person got my vote in four categories.  No, it's not Kitty.  

One person got my vote in 4 categories too

[Excited Penguin]

I am quite respectful of other's feelings, which is why I do not want to see some nasty vag.

I'm not attracted to dick but if I ever described dick that I didn't want to see as "nasty dick" I would immediately feel guilty for acting like there's anything wrong with dick just because I'm not attracted to it. There isn't. There is no "nasty dick" or "nasty vag" there is simply genitals that you're attracted to and genitals you aren't.

Feeling like something is nasty and not being attracted to it is the same thing. You have a problem with the way he expresses himself, not with the way he views things. So be frank about that.

Now, why do you have a problem with his calling something nasty? Because it might hurt feelings? Did you consider maybe one who might be hurt by such a statement may be too hypersensitive to be taken seriously?

[thesummerqueen]

All I'm saying is that it seems like you're using a vague insult - even if you don't see how it is in a round about way - to everyone else in order to justify your actions/beliefs. But then again, that's one reason I'm no longer religious.

[Catholic_Lady]

No you're not them. They're respectful of other people's feelings...

I am quite respectful of other's feelings, which is why I do not want to see some nasty vag.

LOL!! Nasty vajayjay.