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Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:20 pm
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2016 at 2:22 pm by paulpablo.)
Would you have willing sexual contact with someone who had sex re assignment surgery?
I was watching the Joe Rogan podcast with Joey Diaz. They were joking around about it and Joey Diaz said he would have sex with a woman who used to be a man as long as she didn't have big hands and feet. I don't know if he was being serious or not. I was listening to this podcast and thinking about the thread on here about transexuals so I thought I'd start my own.
Joe Rogan made a point that if a man can have sex with a woman with fake breasts and ass why not have sex with another man who just has surgically changed everything, not that I think he was saying he would, I think he was playing devils advocate like he often does on his shows.
My answer is no, and I can't explain my answer. Just if I knew a woman used to have a penis I would never have sex with her under any circumstances, no matter how compatible the personality or how good the looks.
Please try and overlook any terminology I've incorrectly used, I tried to think over the wording fairly carefully but it might not be perfect.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:24 pm
I'm pansexual, so yes.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:26 pm
Yeah. Definitely.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:29 pm
I can't really say, because I simply have not had the opportunity - I have only met a few pre-op transsexuals, three male-to-female and one female-to-male. But I'm really curious now - so much of attraction has little to do with the physical person. Personality and pheromones and . . . oh, a whole bunch of other stuff. And I find myself incapable of being attracted to masculine traits - and not just the physical element. Is hormone therapy good enough to have me react to a trans woman in the same way that I might react to a cisgender woman? Would the thinking and behavior come across as simply female, or would I read male patterns of conversation and behavior coming from a female body? So many questions! I need to find a post-op transsexual woman and find out. 
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:30 pm
The situation has never arisen with me, either M->F or F->M.
Boobs on a guy isn't my thing (if surgery is incomplete) however, I know FOR SURE that is a VERY popular configuration.
As for a woman into a man, I'm really thinking I have not personally encountered one and was aware. There was a man on a PBS show many years ago I will admit thinking looked pretty damn attractive (for a guy) but personality wise, he was not my type.
A inebriated Lesbian attempted to pick me up at a bar once long ago, I grew a beard immediately after that happened . . . . .
(the beard was hot, if I do say, unusual reddish brown (russet) color, if I tried now I'd look like Michael McDonald (still hot, but oh so different)
the world will never know, but I suspect I could father ginger children . . .
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:32 pm
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2016 at 2:32 pm by abaris.)
(April 21, 2016 at 2:20 pm)paulpablo Wrote: My answer is no, and I can't explain my answer. Just if I knew a woman used to have a penis I would never have sex with her under any circumstances, no matter how compatible the personality or how good the looks.
If I knew, probably not. I wouldn't be attracted if I knew, since I'm full of prejudices. But at the same time, I've never been in that kind of situation, so I can't really say if and what could possibly attract me.
And I'm certainly not voting on something I haven't experienced.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:40 pm
I knew a woman back in the 80s with MPD. Several of her personalities were of the opposite sex. She wasn't sexually active (with any personality) to my knowledge from her oft cited childhood abuse.
(disclaimer:
she might not have been diagnosed with MPD, more of a 'common knowledge' situation with her friends, I can't confirm she was ever clinically evaluated)
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:51 pm
Uh, no. I'm a little too old-fashioned for that.
But live-and-let-live, I say.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:52 pm
Only if s/he pays for dinner. I'm easy, not cheap.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
April 21, 2016 at 2:55 pm
The DADV scene in Orgazmo was kinda sorta intriguing.
Make the woman a male to female transexual, and have me on the 'B' team, and I might be able to consummate, depending on the rest of the crew.
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