RE: Woman loses lawsuit over "Girls Gone Wild" video.
August 4, 2010 at 1:13 pm
(August 4, 2010 at 6:15 am)Tiberius Wrote: Sure, it is rare, but to say it "never" happens is untrue.
I was making a generalization. I never expected that my statement was 100% true in all cases. As Eilonnwy pointed out, I was more trying to point out the gender stereotypes present in today's court system in almost the same way hollywood movies and juries are prejudiced in many ways with gender stereotypes that can dangerously affect people in bad circumstances.
Look at pedophilia and the attacks you see on an older person on a younger person.
Which predator gets the bigger punishment in most court sytems?
The older man that lures a little girl into his home for a good time?
The older woman that lures a little boy to her home for a good time?
Let's say that neither child consented. The older people are in their forties or fifties and the 'children' are pre-teens - 12~13 years old. Let's say the boy acts like he enjoyed his time but the girl was more traumatized by the event but they are both mentally scarred by everything that happened as many victims are?
Which predator gets punished worse? I suspect I know the answer to this question.
In any case, this was the point I was attempting to make. There are double standards everywhere in the law and, depending on where you look, either gender can be treated whereas in all matters, it should not.
(August 4, 2010 at 9:39 am)Dotard Wrote: You are not the first women I've ever heard not "get it" when it comes to what men really want and need from women. I absolutely hate the stereotype of men as unrestrainedly horny beasts in a perpetual state of rut. It bites us both ways. First, any sexual accusation toward us is automatically believed. And, second, a whole lot of women have totally lost track of the connection between their part of the mating dance and men's response. Thus we get women playing turn-on games with no intention whatsoever of following through - so that they can play the victim - at the same time we have women who really do deal with us as though we were flesh and blood vibrators who should "turn on" just because they show up and want us turned on.
Dotard...
I don't even know where to begin to respond to this mess.
You seem to be mixing some partly right things (the stereotypes against men you mentioned are present in movies, commercials, trial juries, and teleivision), partly wrong (most people who date other people know this is just a stupid stereotype that isn't true).
Still, your statements regarding the female-male relationship is overly simplistic and completely dependant on one or more of the pair to not understand or have realistic expectations of what their partner wants and needs.
I've been in a lot of relationships and I know many people who've dated, married, and are single.
Not one of them has been disfunctional in the manner you describe. Perhaps it's the people I know, the area in which I live, or the women I myself have dated, but if there's one thing I can know to be true is that sex is never that simple and men want a relationship with someone they want to love just as much as women do and women like sex just as much as men.
(August 4, 2010 at 9:39 am)Dotard Wrote: Right in whos definition of "Right"? You say "Not right" I say "Right". Right/Wrong is relative.
YOU deem it 'right' or 'wrong' therefore it is. Basic logical fallacy here, one of the easiest to see.
That's how the justice system gets improved in a manner in which it can be better served. When it fails, is
wrong, so either future trials can avoid being wrong in the future (if the law was ignored) or the law can be changed to meet the needs of the people.
In this case, the law on the matter was ignored. It doesn't matter how. It doesn't matter why.
The trial still resulted in a ruling that allowed GGW to film someone without their permission and use that film illegally.
There's no two ways about it. That is the law when making movies because I can tell you if a movie was made where Nicole Kidman appears in that movie without that actresses' permission (say they put her digital likeness on another actress or used old footage), she has the legal right to sue the movie and have action taken against the people that made that movie. That's why they always ask permission first.
They used her image without her permission. This is a crime. GGW violated the law.