Why are you rude?

[Gawdzilla Sama]

I didn't create this thread because someone was rude to me.
I just don't understand why it's considered acceptable here to use vile language even if you strongly disagree with your opponents.

Why the fuck does it bother you?

[Fireball]

Graufee, how old are you?

[Kernel Sohcahtoa]

How can you love us? You're "new."

Also, I'm rude because I don't like an awful lot of people, and it's too much effort to be nice to them.

IMO, this is an honest and reasonable statement.  From my vantage point, it is somewhat irritating when someone, who I know does not like me (for whatever reason), is being "nice" to me.  This fake niceness is pretty apparent and comes off as insulting; I'd prefer people to make their honest feelings known rather than hide them behind a veil of fake feelings/behavior. 

That said, rather than pretend to be "nice" to people who I don't care too much for, especially if it is in the workplace where many work relationships are interdependent and avoidance would likely cause additional problems, I prefer to interact with them in a manner that is respectful and civil with the goal of  co-existing with them as realistically/painlessly as possible while hopefully minimizing any behavior on my part that could contribute to a negative conflict cycle. Obviously, this is a work in progress, but hopefully, as time progresses, I will become more skilled at it.  Thanks again for your post.

[Angrboda]

How can you love us? You're "new."

Also, I'm rude because I don't like an awful lot of people, and it's too much effort to be nice to them.

IMO, this is an honest and reasonable statement.  From my vantage point, it is somewhat irritating when someone, who I know does not like me (for whatever reason), is being "nice" to me.  This fake niceness is pretty apparent and comes off as insulting; I'd prefer people to make their honest feelings known rather than hide them behind a veil of fake feelings/behavior. 

That said, rather than pretend to be "nice" to people who I don't care too much for, especially if it is in the workplace where many work relationships are interdependent and avoidance would likely cause additional problems, I prefer to interact with them in a manner that is respectful and civil with the goal of  co-existing with them as realistically/painlessly as possible while hopefully minimizing any behavior on my part that could contribute to a negative conflict cycle. Obviously, this is a work in progress, but hopefully, as time progresses, I will become more skilled at it.  Thanks again for your post.

[GUBU]

I like it here and I love you in a nonsexual way, but why are many people here are rude?
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Is it abstinence syndrome? Is it because you miss Gawd so much?

Not us who are rude fucktard but you. We don't come onto your sites and force or views down your throat, we don't scream blue bloody murder every time a law is passed that denies us the "right" to discriminate against you.

When you want to see what others think, do and are, I suggest starting by avoiding looking in the mirror.

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acceptable here to use vile language

We generally disapprove of quoting from the bible (or torah or qu'ran or other vile "holy" books) here. I don't see anything to come even close to it for evil.

[Angrboda]

[brewer]

I didn't create this thread because someone was rude to me.
I just don't understand why it's considered acceptable here to use vile language even if you strongly disagree with your opponents.

Well, you've kind of been asking for it. Stop being a wanker and maybe things will change,..............maybe.

[Graufreud]

I didn't create this thread because someone was rude to me.
I just don't understand why it's considered acceptable here to use vile language even if you strongly disagree with your opponents.

Why the fuck does it bother you?

It does't bother me at all. I merely feel sorry for people who don't have class.

[Angrboda]

Why the fuck does it bother you?

It does't bother me at all. I merely feel sorry for people who don't have class.

[chimp3]

I didn't create this thread because someone was rude to me.
I just don't understand why it's considered acceptable here to use vile language even if you strongly disagree with your opponents.

 "Vile language" is simply verbal seasoning.