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What do you say?
January 14, 2020 at 9:56 am
Last week, my dad called me at 22 hundred called me saying my cousin age 48, was missing. Immediately we took off on her usual whereabouts, so her daughter and husband. We fanned out, but I had this feeling she was going for a bad idea. Her iPhone last tracked near the sea. We used Facebook to give her car license plate in the search. A fisherman found the car with a woman inside and called us via the number on the FB post.
She had a bottled gas with reductor open and under heavy pills she stole from her husband, in the car.
After the hospital i hugged her. I couldn't say anything.
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RE: What do you say?
January 14, 2020 at 10:07 am
I think the best course is to listen, it won't be pleasant but I've seen the difference just listening to someone can actually make.
All the best going forward.
Quote:I don't understand why you'd come to a discussion forum, and then proceed to reap from visibility any voice that disagrees with you. If you're going to do that, why not just sit in front of a mirror and pat yourself on the back continuously?
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RE: What do you say?
January 14, 2020 at 1:09 pm
Concur with non-verbals. Spoke sentiments can backfire easily. A friend of mine was dying from the Orange Crush and I got his family to form a circle around his bed and hold hands. His wife insisted I be in the chain. He looked around one last time and quietly moved on.
