If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?

[Ravenshire]

If life is temporary, and the human race as a whole is temporary (what I mean is, the sun eventually will go out, and extinct the human race), why would a dating partner be almost impossible to date? Don't you think women would be more generous? What's the purpose of natural selection in a temporary existence? Maybe this implies reincarnation, since life demands you give it your all and be the best of the best, then perhaps even if I don't in this life, then my next life I'll have a chance, or not that one, but eventually I'll have the good go around.

If reincarnation is real why is it that our population is growing?  Where would the extra souls come from?

At least one belief claims they come from other worlds, where population is shrinking.

When your thinking is magical, anything is possible.

[snow_wolf22]

I never knew "extinct" was an active verb. 
I know a few people I'd like to extinct. 

lmfao.

[snow_wolf22]

Something stinks...

ETA: Found his similar postings elsewhere, not word for word

Nothing stinks, everyone I meet likes me. I think the internet is a failed invention and everyone is making "assumptions" based off what I'm writing out my head to describe something. Understand people have lives and they go through stuff and they're also good at holding in stuff. Everyone get's along with me because I remain very positive in real life, and keep a very cool attitude always, etc. Something like that.

And if you're wondering why I'm single is because I'm too shy to meet a girl in person w/o dating apps. But I don't believe cutting out dating apps, I believe using EVERYTHING we can to find someone.

yeah I've made posts on other forums, even got banned for using the S word, which is why I omitted it here and people are bashing me here for attempting to omit it. The internet is a crazy place XD

[snow_wolf22]

Like does my point make sense though, when I say temporary I mean it's.. life.. is literally temporary. So why does it matter??? Who cares if everything doesn't always work out, a kind gentle loving soul like myself or someone else stuck would get that chance to have and experience the love they want and DESERVE. A lot of these guys with muscles are shallow af. and they alllll probably support spraying of chemicals on food and GMO food. gross, yuck.

Maybe your sense of entitlement is precisely what women find unattractive in you.

I'm respected in real life so this is invalid. If you knew me you'd be wondering why I'm single.

[snow_wolf22]

Didn't have the energy to go through OP or the thread.  

So I'll just note that I've always found it weird that people live how they do (in my opinion very conservatively yet also aggressively) given their impending doom.

Not sure if that relates much to the OP, but human behaviour confuses me often.

Can you elaborate on this?

[snow_wolf22]

Drive-by incel...how cute.

I never had issue getting S.. when I had a gf. The problem is finding a gf. Or making that connection. It's weird sometimes the connection just works, but this has only been a handful of times compared to some other people out there, unfortunately.

I am a unique individual and a well respected individual who's very playful and people get along with almost 100% of the time, so I think ya'll are getting confused when you read my post. Maybe I should ask close friends instead?

[Ahriman]

Maybe you're not looking for the right sex partners?

[snow_wolf22]

So boring.  Want to find a girl, go where there are girls.  That easy.  You can be a toxic piece of shit, won't matter.  College is like 2-1, or just take up yoga for fucks sake.

You're talking to someone well respected, even to someone like you probably, we would get along in real life. Everyone get's along with me it's weird.

Even women I get along with in casual settings,

Just making that dating connection requires a little bit of a different circuit in the brain I do not have. I've tried and I've been single for past 5 years or so and now I'm in my 30's I can't find anyone. It's really weird.

It's not easy. Some people are born different than those that think life is easy. That's just how it is. If you loose and arm you never have that arm back. If you're born one way, you may never be able to change certain things. Maybe I can maybe I won't be able to. Idk honestly. Life is temporary so it really doesn't matter. I'm glad it's temporary, to give us all a chance. Either this life or our next.

[Angrboda]

[snow_wolf22]

Incel thread.  He has a similar post elsewhere about being befuddled by women.

Humans of all genders are bizarre, IMHO.

I'm a very well respected "human being" and I do take pride in that**** That being said. if you knew me in person you would wonder why I'm single. I would tell you (in real life) maybe something like idk, because honestly I don't know.

Nothing todo with Incel, I'm a unique individual, and we all are, and I don't believe in labeling anyone anything.

You're listening basically to your "close friend" breaking down in front of you, and what you would do is be there for them. So, as much as I help out our community, I expect the community to be respectful, as I've observed, back.