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The US government/VA at it's finest
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The US government/VA at it's finest
About a month ago my aunt (married to dad's brother) died after a brutal six month battle with metastatic breast cancer.

It took me a while to call my uncle, though I sent a card and also a message to my cousin (his daughter).  While traveling I came down with a severe case of laryngitis and he's half deaf and any phone conversation with him would have been me squeaking out a few words and then him saying "What?".  Then I spent a couple weeks sounding like a twelve-year boy whose voice is changing....anyway...

Uncle received disability from his time in the military.  He provided the VA with a death certificate as required and was told by one person at the VA that his future disability would be reduced by a fairly small amount.  Then he was told by someone else at the VA that the amount of the reduction would be twice what he was originally told.

He checked his bank account and ALL his disability had been taken back out of his account.  He struggled to reach someone who could help him but since it was a Friday, he figured that he would wait till the following Monday to try again to figure things out.

That weekend, while waiting, he received a letter from the VA offering their sympathy for HIS passing.  The sent HIM a letter of sympathy for his own death.  smh

So now he has to convince the Veteran's Administration that he is still very much alive.
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#2
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That’s horrible. Your uncle had already been through enough, and now this.

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That's fucked up. Reminds me of a MASH tv episode minus the comedy.
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Pretty bad. I've had good luck the two times I used the VA hospital. 40+ YA. I hope your uncle gets speedy relief on this.
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Sorry about your aunt.

Dealing with the VA is oftentimes shit. I'm grateful they're there for us, but damn, they're hellastoopid at times.

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Oop. Sorry about your aunt, too.  Consoling
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Thanks all. He spent time in Nam and then he and my dad went to college together at Iowa State. I haven't seen him a whole lot as an adult as I have been all over the country and he planted himself in the Minneapolis area.

His wife was a great help to me when I was going through breast cancer as she had it (but opted for different treatment) a few years before I had it. It's a little scary to think that it came back on her.

John's a smart guy. He left the military, active and reserve, and went into teaching and coaching. And messing with his money is something he won't tolerate.
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My commiserations for your loss.

The follow up story with your uncle is an absolute mess. Hope it gets cleared up pronto.
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That is definitely fucked up, the federal government at it's finest.
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