Posts: 30974
Threads: 204
Joined: July 19, 2011
Reputation:
141
RE: Male or female???
October 13, 2011 at 3:35 pm
(October 13, 2011 at 11:10 am)Cinjin Wrote: I'm more than willing to call you whatever you wish to be called, but I'm sorry, you have not proven to me that there is any malice whatsoever in a merely descriptive word assigned by the scientific medical community.
As someone with several (mental) disorders, I'm not offended in the least by the term. I can't say that I can necessarily understand Sae's position as my issues have nothing to do with gender identity - I can only try (and I would probably fall short).
I personally do not find the term offensive, but I do understand that some do. Like Sae, my condition(s) have a significant degree of social stigma and misunderstanding attached to them.
"Disorder" to me (and as I understand how it is used in the medical community) simply implies that the condition is a functional disturbance - which in my case is quite true.
Posts: 2241
Threads: 94
Joined: December 4, 2008
Reputation:
24
RE: Male or female???
October 13, 2011 at 4:04 pm
(This post was last modified: October 13, 2011 at 4:21 pm by Dotard.)
(October 12, 2011 at 8:07 pm)Cinjin Wrote: ... Besides, it's just a word to describe something that doesn't function properly in nature ... something that medical science can possibly help to correct.
Not unlike homosexuality, girls born with a penis or guys born with vaginas and titties.
I don't see why anyone is offended by this. I'd say disordered is a fair description of an anomaly in nature. Period.
(October 13, 2011 at 12:45 pm)5thHorseman Wrote: Gender, it's between the ears, not the legs.
Nope. It's between the legs.
If what is between the ears does not match what is between the legs, it is what is between the ears that carries the irregularity or anomaly.
Irregularity, abnormality, anomaly, disorder. They're called synonyms.
I used to tell a lot of religious jokes. Not any more, I'm a registered sects offender.
---------------
...the least christian thing a person can do is to become a christian. ~Chuck
---------------
NO MA'AM
Posts: 15755
Threads: 194
Joined: May 15, 2009
Reputation:
145
RE: Male or female???
October 16, 2011 at 6:04 pm
(This post was last modified: October 16, 2011 at 6:18 pm by Violet.)
(October 13, 2011 at 11:10 am)Cinjin Wrote: Comparing the word disordered to the word nigger is a hell of a jump, especially considering that the medical community did not sit around trying to think up words that offend you. Your explanation does indeed give me some insight on why you are offended, but again my only point was that the actual word disorder was not cooked up to insult, belittle or chastise a person of your irregular condition.
Is it really? I think not. Whatever a word is 'cooked up as', consider the environment I left but scarce years ago: highschool. It's growing to be quite insulting indeed. It's even entering into the world of young college
Quote:In the history of the world, I highly doubt that calling someone disordered as a way of insulting them has ever happened during a heated argument. I'm more than willing to call you whatever you wish to be called, but I'm sorry, you have not proven to me that there is any malice whatsoever in a merely descriptive word assigned by the scientific medical community.
Not all insults are used in a heated argument. No, 'freak' is usually the preferred heated form of 'disordered'. Plenty of insults are used quite cooly, and this is one of them. 'Mentally challenged' is another.
I told you, it is not 'merely' a descriptive word of medical conditions. It is now also an insult. Just as "retarded" is not only an insult: it is a way to describe things that are slow. Fun, isn't this thing called language, which if it isn't Latin is constantly evolving
Perhaps it's something unique to Alaska, as I haven't seen it here yet. Were you the school's primary source of mockery, or were you treated as an aside from the main scapegoats?
(October 13, 2011 at 4:04 pm)Dotard Wrote: Not unlike homosexuality, girls born with a penis or guys born with vaginas and titties.
I don't see why anyone is offended by this. I'd say disordered is a fair description of an anomaly in nature. Period.
I see nothing out of order with something simply because it doesn't often occur. Again, irregularity is the better word to describe it for what it is.
Quote:Nope. It's between the legs.
Gender's in the brain. If I cut off your penis are you no longer a man? I'd be particularly motivated to test this out according to volunteer test subjects should you answer 'yes'
Quote:If what is between the ears does not match what is between the legs, it is what is between the ears that carries the irregularity or anomaly.
Irregularity, abnormality, anomaly, disorder. They're called synonyms.
It's the combination of the two that is together an anomaly, as the genders of man/woman (in the brain) is quite common, and so are penises and vaginas. I see a lot more wrong with my body than a penis, but I'm working on it, just as 'fat girls' might work on becoming thinner, or as many (young) women use concealer to hide pimples
Also, all synonyms are not made equal. Collosal, big, huge, and towering could all be used to describe something large... but they specify particulars and cannot always be used to replace each other.
It's called word usage.
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
Posts: 2241
Threads: 94
Joined: December 4, 2008
Reputation:
24
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am
(October 16, 2011 at 6:04 pm)Vaeolet Lilly Blossom Wrote: If I cut off your penis are you no longer a man?
Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
A dude thinks he's a girl. You may believe the best option is to cut off his pecker and insert vagina. I happen to believe the better option would be to determine what the chemical malfunction is within their brains and work to correct that.
I used to tell a lot of religious jokes. Not any more, I'm a registered sects offender.
---------------
...the least christian thing a person can do is to become a christian. ~Chuck
---------------
NO MA'AM
Posts: 312
Threads: 18
Joined: May 30, 2011
Reputation:
12
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 8:06 am
Dotard, I suggest you watch the video I posted in post no. 2 of this thread, then you might appreciate gender is not so simple.
"Great spirits have often encountered violent opposition from weak minds."
Einstein
When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down happy. They told me I didn't understand the assignment. I told them they didn't understand life.
- John Lennon
Posts: 13051
Threads: 66
Joined: February 7, 2011
Reputation:
92
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 8:07 am
(October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
Then what gender are those born with both sexual organs?
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
Posts: 12512
Threads: 202
Joined: January 3, 2010
Reputation:
107
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 8:19 am
(October 17, 2011 at 8:07 am)Faith No More Wrote: (October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
Then what gender are those born with both sexual organs?
Refer to Post #2
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
Posts: 3158
Threads: 132
Joined: September 1, 2011
Reputation:
44
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 8:34 am
(This post was last modified: October 17, 2011 at 8:43 am by Erinome.)
(October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: (October 16, 2011 at 6:04 pm)Vaeolet Lilly Blossom Wrote: If I cut off your penis are you no longer a man?
Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
Wrongy Wrongerton!
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-...rmines-sex
That's just technical stuff.
Quote:A dude thinks he's a girl. You may believe the best option is to cut off his pecker and insert vagina. I happen to believe the better option would be to determine what the chemical malfunction is within their brains and work to correct that.
What a dumbass thing to say.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Causes_of_transsexualism
Why would you talk about something you obviously don't know a damn thing about?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_dysphoria
I'm a gay man who just happened to be born with a vagina, and I am finally fine with that. Why do you feel the need to come along and suggest there is something wrong with me, or any person for that matter? Get off it.
(October 17, 2011 at 8:07 am)Faith No More Wrote: (October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
Then what gender are those born with both sexual organs?
He doesn't have a fucking clue. Just talking out the side of his neck, laying waste to any doubts we had about his vague perception of reality.
Posts: 13051
Threads: 66
Joined: February 7, 2011
Reputation:
92
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 8:51 am
(October 17, 2011 at 8:19 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: (October 17, 2011 at 8:07 am)Faith No More Wrote: (October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
Then what gender are those born with both sexual organs?
Refer to Post #2
Thanks Kichi, but I want to hear Dotard's answer
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
Posts: 15755
Threads: 194
Joined: May 15, 2009
Reputation:
145
RE: Male or female???
October 17, 2011 at 11:47 am
(This post was last modified: October 17, 2011 at 12:09 pm by Violet.)
...
There was another trans here and he didn't tell me?
I feel neglected.
Anyway, I'll respond to our dearest dotard later ^_^ Depends on if I'm having hot lezzie sex or not <3
(October 17, 2011 at 7:57 am)Dotard Wrote: (October 16, 2011 at 6:04 pm)Vaeolet Lilly Blossom Wrote: If I cut off your penis are you no longer a man?
Gender is determined by what you are born with between the legs. Better?
A dude thinks he's a girl. You may believe the best option is to cut off his pecker and insert vagina. I happen to believe the better option would be to determine what the chemical malfunction is within their brains and work to correct that.
Intersex'll love that comment XD
If a dude thought he was a girl, then there might well be something wrong with him. If a girl with broad shoulders and a penis and facial hair thought she was a girl... then, well: she's right XD
Needless to say, one can't have hot lezzie sex while her partner's in class.
Or maybe one can...
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
|