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The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
#51
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
(November 28, 2015 at 11:45 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I'm just not understanding the particularly part without you ascribing a certain amount of femininity or masculinity to various aspects.
I covered that in post #47.
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#52
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
No, you didn't, which is why I asked for clarification.
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#53
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
Clearly, he was hurt over her actions. He just found out three weeks prior to that video that she cheated on him. Would anyone have preferred he sink into a deep, dark depression and sat on the couch in self pity while eating chocolate or ice cream? No. Honestly, he did what HE thought needed to be done. Good on him for that.

We all deal with bad stuff in our own way. Some of it is destructive, some constructive. Clearly, he was covering his own ass by not destroying everything in sight.

Bottom line: She set him up for hurt when she cheated. He set her up for a non-physical bitch slapping by getting her hopes up about a vacation and then let her have it at the end, via a card. If he would have beat the shit out of her, the outrage would have been all over the place. Instead, he gave her her just desserts. She got what was coming to her. Instead of being violent (towards her or her stuff), he chose to creatively leave. Perhaps this will serve as a lesson to never do it to anyone else in the future. Outrageous things like this tend to leave quite an impression on a person and perhaps he gets to save the next guy in her life the shame of having to go through this. Perhaps she will now think twice before cheating on someone else.
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(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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#54
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
(November 28, 2015 at 11:53 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: No, you didn't, which is why I asked for clarification.

It's clear to me. I considered his behavior on the video to be quite shrewish, being defined as:(of a woman) bad-tempered or aggressively assertive; having the disposition of a shrew; nagging. The behavior itself is NOT descriptive of most women, nor is it ascribed to women alone.

However, by  definition, it's not an adjective that is used to described males. Yet, that is precisely the adjective that came to my mind when I watched this guy in action. 

Some behaviors are perceived  as unmanly, be that right or wrong. By taking this common perception into account, I simply offered a plausible explanation as to why the woman in the video may have cheated. She may have perceived him as unmanly. I feel that his behavior in the video, and his decision to post it demonstrates this.

Hope that explanation is adequate. If you disagree, that's fine. But, I see no need to change my language regarding my feelings on the matter.
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#55
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
I just see two people who have a hard time with relationships causing each other still more pain and making it even harder to trust another human being in the future. I couldn't watch most of the video. Embarrassing for him. Painful for her. Yuck.
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#56
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
Yeah, I spent most of the video pitying him in the worst way.

She's a shit person, he looks like a shit person. I bet they are already back together being shit.
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#57
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
You're all a bunch of fucking killjoys.
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#58
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
I am still incredibly bothered by the fact that he was playing with a rubber penis in his car at the end.
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(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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#59
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
(November 29, 2015 at 7:03 am)Napoléon Wrote: You're all a bunch of fucking killjoys.

Yeah... you don't know joy until you have been publicly shamed on the internet...
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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#60
RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
See, and now there's a bunch of people debating over their relationship online, as if the situation wasn't unpleasant enough. This is why you keep your private shit, you know, private Dodgy
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