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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:27 pm
She's right, but also incredibly dumb. Yes, if she didn't want to have sex with him and she says that and he still does it, that's rape and that's awful. But kissing a drunk guy while you're both naked in the shower? That's sort of the definition of "asking for it." I am not excusing the rapist's actions with that phrase. It's still rape and it's still horrible. But if I walked through the South Bronx with a sign on that says "I HATE N_____S AND SPICS" and I got stabbed to death, I'd say I was "asking for it." Doesn't mean the murder was justified. But what did I expect when I put myself in such a situation?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:32 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 1:20 pm)poo Wrote: She agrees to get into a shower with a drunk guy, kisses him and the guy apparently rapes her. So she's gotten raped as a total of 10 time. By 10 different people.
Shit.
Her on Instagram Wrote:CONSENT TO A SHOWER IS NOT CONSENT TO SEX
Holy Shit.
I'm sorry. What?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:33 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 1:27 pm)Aegon Wrote: But kissing a drunk guy while you're both naked in the shower? That's sort of the definition of "asking for it."
I'm sorry. What?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:34 pm
This seems like it could be a hoax. It's certainly going to be a boon for the personal brand of amber "the activist."
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:35 pm
(January 10, 2016 at 1:34 pm)Aegon Wrote: (January 10, 2016 at 1:33 pm)Mermaid Wrote: I'm sorry. What?
Taking that line out of context to portray me as a misogynistic asshole. Alright then.
Out of context? Was it? You said in black and white that showering with someone is the definition of "asking for it". Am I wrong? I have no intention of framing anyone in an incorrect light.
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:37 pm
Pool, what is your message here?
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RE: Another raaaaaaaaaape!!!
January 10, 2016 at 1:41 pm
You decided to get intimate with a drunk person, and are upset that he didn't stop at the point you wanted to stop. Now I know what he did was wrong, but what she did was also wrong. Rape is not ok, but you should also not put yourself in that kind of position if you aren't planning to go all the way. If you don't want to have sex, don't get naked and start kissing someone. especially someone who is drunk.
Now if a woman just happens to be walking down the street in a revealing outfit, and she gets jumped and raped, I put full blame on the rapists. But there's a difference between a poor innocent victim going about their day, and getting raped, and someone who decided she wants to get naked and kiss a drunk guy, and expecting him to know when to stop.
getting run over by a car is a horrible thing, but if you were playing in the street when it happened it's a little bit your fault. Context is important.
