(January 14, 2016 at 4:48 pm)Stimbo Wrote:

(January 14, 2016 at 4:44 pm)Losty Wrote: I think so...it seems that if someone is having that negative of an influence, there must be a rule they're breaking.

Oh, you'd be surprised. Some of them are pretty good at staying just outside the five-mile limit.

I'm not surprised. I just think the rules are already more ambiguous than the staff treats them. Which is a good thing really.

After he who must not be named cause the huge mess on TTA the new rule was basically that 2 people had the power to ban any member for any reason. It's been working out nicely for them.

I think everyone should keep in mind that it's not really the rules that are the most important things, but rather the staff that implements them. So long as we have good people on staff we have nothing to worry about.

(January 14, 2016 at 4:44 pm)Losty Wrote: I think so...it seems that if someone is having that negative of an influence, there must be a rule they're breaking. I still think the rules we already have in place are ambiguous enough that the mods could potentially ban anyone negative without this new power.
I also still think the new power isn't hurting anyone except maybe a temporary feeling of unease. Should wear off as people become more sure that it doesn't make us more likely to get banned.

Eta. Was in response to Tibs not Brian.

That's the problem, people were being a negative influence but they weren't breaking any rules, at least not any that the staff could agree on. We'd have people report trolling and take a look and think "well, it could be trolling, but at the same time it might be a weird opinion". If they were breaking a rule, believe me, we wouldn't even be discussing this new power.

(January 14, 2016 at 4:48 pm)Napoléon Wrote: Why you can't just make this a rule instead of opening it up as a way to negate the rules themselves is confusing.

To me it sounds a lot like arguing over semantics, but if that will reduce the level of consternation I'll discuss it with staff.

New member wasn't bashed until shitty attitude arose.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:05 pm)Tiberius Wrote: To me it sounds a lot like arguing over semantics, but if that will reduce the level of consternation I'll discuss it with staff.

Sounds like a good idea.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:05 pm)Tiberius Wrote: To me it sounds a lot like arguing over semantics, but if that will reduce the level of consternation I'll discuss it with staff.

Yeah, it is semantics, but I think the difference between making it a rule and making it something that negates the rules, is quite a big difference in all fairness. I'd be surprised if you didn't agree.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:06 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: New member wasn't bashed until shitty attitude arose.

True, but the point stands, that shitty attitude is only propagated by the wording of this 'new power' IMO.

(January 14, 2016 at 4:12 pm)Napoléon Wrote:

(January 14, 2016 at 3:50 pm)Jörmungandr Wrote: That's another thing.  This rule makes perfectly acceptable members fear for their longevity.  We may joke about it, but will such a rule have a chilling effect on users who, rightly or wrongly, consider themselves centers of drama, unpopular views, or whatever?   Perhaps a strict sequence of disciplinary actions needs to be spelled out for this rule by itself, a la the use of official warnings?

This is where it opens up a can of worms that just doesn't need to be opened.

In this very thread we've seen a relatively new member concerned over the fact this 'power' might be abused. They were instantly bashed by the rest of the established membership for thinking what a hell of a lot of new users will likely think (rightly or wrongly).

Piggybacking on Jormungandr's previous post if I may, what are new members realistically going to think when they read about "the nuclear option"? They don't have the understanding that we do that the staff are as fantastic as they are.

It comes back to it being irrelevant how good the staff are and how much we trust them. It's not even about that.

People bemoan 'forum drama' but what exactly does calling something like this a 'nuclear option' do? Honestly?

And if someone does get banned from this. Let's just say for arguments sake. They haven't broken the rules, but everyone (including myself) reviles them as an asshole. It's still not right IMO to ban such a member. Not for such vague and wishy washy reasoning that is not clearly defined in the rules in the first place.

If a member is so bad that everyone can't stand them being here, then I'd place a pretty big bet that they'd already done something actionable within the scope of the rules, and if not, modify the rules. You can't have an 'option' that allows, regardless of whether it would ever happen, for a user who hasn't broken said rules to be banned. In my honest opinion having such an option seems to flounder everything I thought this forum represented, and I'm quite surprised at the amount of people who think it is in fact a good idea.

I'll shut my pie hole now though, probably said enough. Don't want people to think I'm whining.

Maybe I'm weird, but I have always recognized, regardless of what forum I'm on, that my ability to post and be a member is a privilege granted to me by forum ownership.  I don't actually have any right to post since the forum is owned and operated by a private entity who can do whatever they wish with it, and a ban doesn't actually impart harm.  So any new (or existing) member not understanding that fundamental truth to message boards is merely naive.  We're here because we're allowed to be here.  We can't claim any entitlement to the place.  That's one reason (among many) why it's better to be a positively contributing member of whatever forum you're on, because you're not entitled to be there, and your ass can be kicked out.  

Honestly, this staff is by far the most lenient I have ever encountered.  I'm amazed by the patience and restraint they've shown with certain, obvious members.  People that, at PHPF, I would've swung the ban hammer at far sooner.  So, I'm not worried about the nuke being used when it shouldn't because this crew has already shown a remarkable resistance to banning members.

And again, there's a difference between "Member X is an asshole" and "Member X is cocking up every thread they're in, causing people to abandon the place."  The nuke is for the second scenario, not the first.

I already gave an example of a member on PHPF who didn't break the written rules, but left destruction in her wake.  It can and does happen, so you can't just assume that these people will be repeat rule violators.  That's why it's necessary to have a provision to cover the gap.  It's the outliers that kill forums, not the spam bots and obvious trolls.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:10 pm)Napoléon Wrote:

(January 14, 2016 at 5:06 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: New member wasn't bashed until shitty attitude arose.

True, but the point stands, that shitty attitude is only propagated by the wording of this 'new power' IMO.

Coming into a new forum and just deciding the staff is corrupt is a little beyond that, I think.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:10 pm)KevinM1 Wrote: We're here because we're allowed to be here.  

Again, nobody has said otherwise.

It has nothing to do with 'entitlement'.

However, if you ask the membership for an opinion, expect one.
 
One of the greatest things about this forum is its openness. And the fact that opinions seem to matter. And the fact that actually, despite it all, it's not just a forum at the whim of whoever owns it.

I distinctly remember a point in time where Tiberius talked about stepping down if the membership didn't want him as Supreme Overlord.

That's the guy who owns the site saying that.

Quote:Honestly, this staff is by far the most lenient I have ever encountered.

Can we honestly drop this. Nobody to my knowledge has seriously said otherwise and the contentions raised here have nothing at all to do with the competency of the staff.

(January 14, 2016 at 5:05 pm)Tiberius Wrote:

(January 14, 2016 at 4:44 pm)Losty Wrote: I think so...it seems that if someone is having that negative of an influence, there must be a rule they're breaking. I still think the rules we already have in place are ambiguous enough that the mods could potentially ban anyone negative without this new power.
I also still think the new power isn't hurting anyone except maybe a temporary feeling of unease. Should wear off as people become more sure that it doesn't make us more likely to get banned.

Eta. Was in response to Tibs not Brian.

That's the problem, people were being a negative influence but they weren't breaking any rules, at least not any that the staff could agree on. We'd have people report trolling and take a look and think "well, it could be trolling, but at the same time it might be a weird opinion". If they were breaking a rule, believe me, we wouldn't even be discussing this new power.

Like I said, the rules are ambiguous enough, but the staff is cautious. It's a good thing. I like having a forum team that doesn't want to ban people unless they're certain. It means even with the new power nothing will change. It doesn't even get my hopes up that EP will be perma banned sooner