(May 9, 2016 at 6:44 pm)Mermaid Wrote: In the west, people look at men like you as being very, very insecure about something. Maybe you have a tiny penis?

Are you in A69? 

(May 9, 2016 at 7:01 pm)paulpablo Wrote:

(May 9, 2016 at 6:01 pm)Irrational Wrote: I consider those men (who lose respect for a man with a woman who respects herself) to be really insecure. I know a lot of them in the extended family ... most of them are chronically and involuntarily single.

I was just replying to this post.  I don't know what pool means when he says dominant.

I don't get it. Dominant means dominant, when I say dominant what I mean is what dominant means.
(sorry for being rude)

In our community :
In the family the husband is the leader. He brings money to the house. He brings the house into the picture in the first place. He brings assets to the house. Wife stays home all day with her girl buddies and watch TV. Wife takes care of the house and everyone in it making sure there is no conflict and everyone is happy. She takes care and maintains the assets husband brings into the picture for her and himself. Plus the submissive, kind, caring nature of the wife. Everyone's happy, wife gets to not work her butt off in a crowded workplace bundled with workplace politics,gets to stay home all day and watch TV, gets to go out with girls and only has the responsibility to keep her man happy.Not to mention we don't have the insane "women must be insanely skinny with huge boobs" kind of expectations. A typical provider-caretaker role.
Hey, if people in the west call this women hating then so be it, I look at it and all I see is pampering.
(this doesn't mean that career oriented women are discouraged in any way,they can work if that's their passion, they'll just be missing out.)
:')

If you want to have sex with your girlfriend/wife but she doesn't want to, what do you do, as the dominant man who is so revered in your culture? I'm actually morbidly curious, and prepared to regret asking the question.

(May 9, 2016 at 9:59 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: If you want to have sex with your girlfriend/wife but she doesn't want to, what do you do, as the dominant man who is so revered in your culture? I'm actually morbidly curious, and prepared to regret asking the question.

It would depend on the situation, like the reason why she is withholding sex, if she is doing it on a regular basis and many other factors. :')

(May 9, 2016 at 9:58 pm)pool the great Wrote: In our community :
In the family the husband is the leader. He brings money to the house. He brings the house into the picture in the first place. He brings assets to the house. Wife stays home all day with her girl buddies and watch TV. Wife takes care of the house and everyone in it making sure there is no conflict and everyone is happy. She takes care and maintains the assets husband brings into the picture for her and himself. Plus the submissive, kind, caring nature of the wife. Everyone's happy, wife gets to not work her butt off in a crowded workplace bundled with workplace politics,gets to stay home all day and watch TV, gets to go out with girls and only has the responsibility to keep her man happy.Not to mention we don't have the insane "women must be insanely skinny with huge boobs" kind of expectations. A typical provider-caretaker role.
Hey, if people in the west call this women hating then so be it, I look at it and all I see is pampering.
(this doesn't mean that career oriented women are discouraged in any way,they can work if that's their passion, they'll just be missing out.)
:')

Oh wow, if being a stay-at-home mom means sitting around all day watching TV, then I am doing it wrong!

(May 9, 2016 at 10:11 pm)pool the great Wrote:

(May 9, 2016 at 9:59 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: If you want to have sex with your girlfriend/wife but she doesn't want to, what do you do, as the dominant man who is so revered in your culture? I'm actually morbidly curious, and prepared to regret asking the question.

It would depend on the situation, like the reason why she is withholding sex, if she is doing it on a regular basis and many other factors. :')

So, are threats, manipulation, or physical force ever justified within a marriage there? In other words, is being obedient the most important thing a woman can do for her husband?

(May 9, 2016 at 10:11 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote:

(May 9, 2016 at 9:58 pm)pool the great Wrote: In our community :
In the family the husband is the leader. He brings money to the house. He brings the house into the picture in the first place. He brings assets to the house. Wife stays home all day with her girl buddies and watch TV. Wife takes care of the house and everyone in it making sure there is no conflict and everyone is happy. She takes care and maintains the assets husband brings into the picture for her and himself. Plus the submissive, kind, caring nature of the wife. Everyone's happy, wife gets to not work her butt off in a crowded workplace bundled with workplace politics,gets to stay home all day and watch TV, gets to go out with girls and only has the responsibility to keep her man happy.Not to mention we don't have the insane "women must be insanely skinny with huge boobs" kind of expectations. A typical provider-caretaker role.
Hey, if people in the west call this women hating then so be it, I look at it and all I see is pampering.
(this doesn't mean that career oriented women are discouraged in any way,they can work if that's their passion, they'll just be missing out.)
:')

Oh wow, if being a stay-at-home mom means sitting around all day watching TV, then I am doing it wrong!

Maybe your circumstances are different?
Indian guys in general are very compassionate and help out women in the kitchen, my daddy always helps mom out in the kitchen. At 8'o clock children will leave for school and not return until 3 pm and at 9'o clock hubby leaves for work. Wife gets to play with the puppy and TV marathon. Honestly, if I was this hot but if I was a girl I'd be having the best time of my life. Not to mean it's hard for a guy here, manly things are draining. :')

(May 9, 2016 at 10:14 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote:

(May 9, 2016 at 10:11 pm)pool the great Wrote: It would depend on the situation, like the reason why she is withholding sex, if she is doing it on a regular basis and many other factors. :')

So, are threats, manipulation, or physical force ever justified within a marriage there? In other words, is being obedient the most important thing a woman can do for her husband?

Keeping the husband happy is in the best interest of the wife, I believe. If for some reason hubby starts getting uneasy at work and generally displeased with how things are going, he may quit his job or get into gambling habits. Which means the woman will have to go work and bring home money, which is draining for her and not worth the hassle so she prefers to keep her man happy so that she and the whole family can be happy. : ')

Lol, well yeah when your kids are school age that's different. No time for uninterrupted tv with a 1.5 year old! My husband helps out a lot; he is a wonderful father and husband, but toddlers are a 24 hour job! So, women there don't go back to work even when the kids are old enough to go to school full days? I think I'd get sick of all day tv after like, one day. I'd go crazy.