(May 10, 2016 at 9:09 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: For what it's worth pool, I don't think you hate women.

At last!!

(May 10, 2016 at 9:29 pm)pool the great Wrote:

(May 10, 2016 at 3:50 pm)Thena323 Wrote: I've never called you a misogynist.

However, I would say that it is indeed quite possible for some men to simultaneously desire women, while deeply resenting women for the perceived 'control' that said desire gives them over men, just to answer your question. 

*Some means: Not all.


As quoted from my previous response in the hide tag above...

*But asserting that their IDEAL purpose in life is to exist as cutsie wootsie, pampered puppies princesses for your convenience, pleasure and amusement clearly indicates your urge to belittle and dehumanize them.*
 
...The purpose being what I've highlighted in bold. How on earth did you miss that?


Ha ha..Princess must be a poodle.

Who's a good girl? Who's a good girl? 
You're my pwecious-wecious sweetheart?....Yes, you are!...Yes you are!
Who wants snuggle-wuggles? Come to pool , my honey-woney, sweetie-face...
pool-wooly wuvs you vewy, vewy, much!..Yes he does!
He weally weally does!

Heh heh...Do you get it, yet? 


I understood it when you said they weren't forbidden to the very first time. And  the second, and the third. Promoting/encouraging women to keep their asses at home isn't the the same as forbidding. Everyone's well aware of that.

If you honestly feel that life as a pet wife in your fantasy world of luxury and opulence would be preferable to pursuing your goals in programming or software engineering, then go for it; I'm sure someone out there will manage to find you fetching enough.

Best of luck to you.

Well Thena, as far as our community goes, women choose to be housewives instead of pursuing careers. If what you are saying is true and husband regularly treat women as inferiors, like a dog, then wouldn't you think that the woman would be entirely displeased, look like shit with all the work her man makes her do, have regular fights at house and cops get called in etc?
I see these women daily, they look stunning, there is no stress in their face because" hubby will take care of it ", they don't look unhappy in the slightest , we don't have a single cop visit from domestic violence, and in my entire life time I've seen only 1 divorce case, which was my uncles.
You know, these observations don't lie, if your assertion that women were being oppressed and treated like shit were true then my observations would've been different. But these observations does match up with me asserting that they are treated as princesses, which they like, hence them lot leaving their husband. I treat all my girlfriends like little princess baby's, then aren't breaking up with me for belittling, dehumanizing and treating them like dogs (as per what you're saying)... Maybe I really am treating them like gods and they like it.  Dig?  :')

In India, women don't really have much of a choice, and they certainly are treated as inferior beings in general. High rates of rape (and condoning rape), dowry harrassment and burnings; if they're not married, they're a utter disgrace to the family, etc.

(May 10, 2016 at 9:29 pm)pool the great Wrote: Well Thena, as far as our community goes, women choose to be housewives instead of pursuing careers.

Do you think there aren't any women in Western cultures who choose the same? There are a few SAHM's on this board alone.

Quote:If what you are saying is true and husband regularly treat women as inferiors, like a dog, then wouldn't you think that the woman would be entirely displeased, look like shit with all the work her man makes her do, have regular fights at house and cops get called in etc?

Is that what you think? That relationships in which the woman has a career are like you described above?

Quote:I see these women daily, they look stunning, there is no stress in their face because" hubby will take care of it ", they don't look unhappy in the slightest ,

How would you know how happy they were? People I've known for years have shown stunned surprise when they've learned I suffer from clinical depression; how would someone on the street have any idea what I'm thinking or feeling? The fact that you can say things like that so flippantly adds another layer to the fact that you don't see women as equals to you. What happens if the husband dies?

Quote:we don't have a single cop visit from domestic violence, and in my entire life time I've seen only 1 divorce case, which was my uncles.

Bullshit!!! It really wasn't hard to google "domestic violence India". See? I did it for you.

Or... "divorce statistics India".

Quote:You know, these observations don't lie,

Uh... yes they do, dude. Just... and I know this is a novel thought for you... READ something! I made it really easy for you.

Quote:if your assertion that women were being oppressed and treated like shit were true then my observations would've been different. But these observations does match up with me asserting that they are treated as princesses, which they like, hence them lot leaving their husband. I treat all my girlfriends like little princess baby's, then aren't breaking up with me for belittling, dehumanizing and treating them like dogs (as per what you're saying)... Maybe I really am treating them like gods and they like it.  Dig?  :')

Oh, I see. treating them like "little princess baby's [sic]" isn't nearly as condescending as dehumanizing them "like dogs", as you say (though I treat dogs just as well as I do any human, so...).

Grow up.

Lol at a guy saying he knows how women feel about their station in his culture.

This thread is getting a bit ridiculous

You know, for someone that lives on the other side of the world, you sure do know more about my community than I do.

(May 10, 2016 at 9:58 pm)pool the great Wrote: You know, for someone that lives on the other side of the world, you sure do know more about my community than I do.  

For someone who lives in India you sure do know nothing about your own culture.

(May 10, 2016 at 9:58 pm)pool the great Wrote: You know, for someone that lives on the other side of the world, you sure do know more about my community than I do.  

Because I fucking READ! And are you kidding me with this? You are the one who's spent three or four threads telling western people all about western culture, you fucking imbecile.

I would love for you to meet my friend Govind. He's a very intelligent guy, fairly old fashioned, I think you would like him. And maybe hearing it from an old fashioned Indian man with your same taste in women would help you see.

It's ok to be attracted to submissive women. There's nothing wrong with it. It's not okay for a society to raise up little girls believing they must be pretty, submissive, little baby princess housewives in order to be good or desirable. It's very naive to believe that's what most women want.

Oink Oink.