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How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
#81
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
(August 27, 2016 at 6:35 pm)Jörmungandr Wrote: I r smrt 2.

Intelligence is as intelligence does.

(August 28, 2016 at 3:17 am)pocaracas Wrote:
(August 27, 2016 at 6:52 pm)Arkilogue Wrote: The later quote is from the University of Oregon physics department, not me.

And you  agreed with it enough to repost it.
Also shows how those guys from the  University of Oregon physics department ate biased in their thought.
It's like shooting colloquialisms in a barrel! Rolleyes
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#82
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
(August 27, 2016 at 6:46 pm)ChadWooters Wrote: @Those Who Kudo Rythym – Personally, I find it very closed-minded to think that the only two options that explain someone rejecting atheism are dishonesty or mental illness. Again this goes back to the pretense that atheists have a monopoly on logic and reason. I find it hard to believe that some of the AF members I respect would applaud this kind of intolerance.

Except that I was't commenting on any two options for people rejecting atheism..I was commenting on a specific and common line you have a compulsion to repeat.  In your case, it appears to be dishonesty rather than illness...if I had to choose between the two....though personally.....there's a third option I'd go for in combo with it. You just don't know any better, and don't have a better way to express the POV that was spoonfed to you in ignorance. I suppose, though..that this is just another form of simple dishonesty...with oneself, one's knowledge, and ones claimed mastery of rational thought.

Meanwhile, I'm still here, still loving Bach...and you're still avoiding -any- discussion of your own ineptly framed declarations regarding atheism. Now you've moved on to yet another common line christing types have a compulsion for...."intolerance". More accurately translated as "boo hoo, someone disagreed with me..and had the audacity to call out the garbage I peddle for what it is".

: shrugs :
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#83
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
I always find it ludicrous when someone draws a conclusion about why I choose to kudos a person. It can only be because I agree 100% with everything that person says and not, say, that I appreciate a pithy phrase or anything, right?
At the age of five, Skagra decided emphatically that God did not exist.  This revelation tends to make most people in the universe who have it react in one of two ways - with relief or with despair.  Only Skagra responded to it by thinking, 'Wait a second.  That means there's a situation vacant.'
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#84
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
I wanted to kudos your post Stimbo....but I didn't want to make anyone feel pissy about it, so I decided not to.   Wink
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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#85
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
Yep, gotta be real careful these days.
At the age of five, Skagra decided emphatically that God did not exist.  This revelation tends to make most people in the universe who have it react in one of two ways - with relief or with despair.  Only Skagra responded to it by thinking, 'Wait a second.  That means there's a situation vacant.'
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#86
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
I'm a rebel. Have some kudos.
I don't believe you. Get over it.
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#87
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
I'm still trying to figure that out. I find it hard not to let it consume me at times, honestly. I guess I'm a realist. I seem to walk a weird line between humanist and misanthrope. I mostly keep to myself but I'd kill to make that one connection with someone that I could be with for the rest of my life. It's this amazing thing that we can do, to love someone, and be loved by them, as a comfort for all the uncertainty in this life. That is something that I search for and it keeps me going. I still have hope for things, but it can be difficult with all that uncertainty in this life. I'm beyond curious about what's out there in the universe. I want to see and discover things, but I feel trapped on this planet with so very few people that I relate to. It has kept me from finding much fulfillment in this life. I currently, as I always have, felt aimless and without any sense of purpose. I'm still searching and I hope I'm not old and full of regrets.
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#88
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
(August 25, 2016 at 7:14 am)LadyForCamus Wrote: I have a very difficult time with this still.  I wish I had some advice for you.  In all honesty, the thought frequently keeps me awake at night.  I think maybe it just takes time to emotionally process the realization, and perhaps it takes longer for some than for others.

Same here.  I have quite a lot of anxiety because of it.  I think barely a day goes by that I don't think about it.  It actually got quite a bit worse for me recently right after my mother had a stroke.  She survived, but it was like mortality suddenly became very, very REAL.  Now I feel a bit obsessed with it, but I'm doing my best to process it all, (enjoying life, making our own meaning, remembering loved ones gives them a certain kind of immortality, etc) but it's a much slower and more painful process than belief in god and the afterlife was.  

I feel like, at 40+, I've only just now started to gain some wisdom and understand a few things, and that I will never ever really understand or accept it all. I'll probably struggle with it until the day I die.
“Eternity is a terrible thought. I mean, where's it going to end?” 
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#89
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
There are some things we simply cannot change. To make peace we must accept them.

There are resources we have within ourselves that can console us and give us insight. In the past we attributed these to a theistic conception of God. Now that concept seems false to you, but that doesn't mean those resources are gone; they simply have a different source than you once thought. I continue to still myself and go within. Sometimes I just sit. Sometimes when I need consolation I still talk to God, my departed grandmother, or whoever - although with the understanding that I am ultimately speaking to myself and any visual, audial, or other response I receive is being generated by my brain. But it still works, it is still useful - it doesn't have to be supernatural to be valuable.

As to death, I never have worried much about it. The universe is a mass of fluctuating energy constantly flowing, moving, changing forms. "I" am merely a part of that. My life is a form of order arising from and maintained by a flux. While that order cannot be maintained forever - except in a certain sense if the universe is a block-space - the universe will. I am a part of the cosmos, and for lack of a better phrase, the cosmos is the "greater part" of me. We return to the cosmos like waves to an ocean: we were never truly separate from it.

I know not everyone will be consoled by that form of an afterlife, so to speak, but it really is enough for me. You will not be bothered by the final breakdown of order within flux that is your life anymore than before you were born, and in the meantime you can enjoy life for what it is and revel in all sorts of possible meanings to give it, even create your own.

Life is temporary, but it really is special, if not to the cosmos as a whole, then at least to us. It is enough.
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#90
RE: How do you deal with life now that you are an atheist? (With a little of my life)
(August 27, 2016 at 6:34 pm)Arkilogue Wrote:
(August 27, 2016 at 5:36 pm)robvalue Wrote: Where is the falsifiability in all this?

What is a non-designed reality like, and how do you know this?


You appear to be telling us what any potential universe would be like, and that you have a model for it. How do you know any of this is true? We have one data point. You're making assumptions that other universes must be follow a bunch of rules similar to the ones this one has. Your "falsifiable criteria" is based on modelling this universe and comparing it against itself, as far as I can see. We can't retest it. This universe fits your criteria. Can I perform any additional tests that could actually falsify it? Just recounting the same data you already decided fits your model is not another test.
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