CIJS- you were making out and he slowly slid his hand down your panties, you pulled it back out. After a few minutes he put it back in you said "no, I don't want to" he very gently persisted. Your heart started beating faster you whisper "please stop" he answers you with a romantic kiss his tongue lovingly mingling with yours. You keep saying no but he keeps going, slowly, softly, sweetly. All the while reassuring you "shhh" "it's ok, baby". Eventually you stop saying no. Your hands are shaking you don't know what to do. How can you resist further without accusing your best friend of raping you? He's not a rapist, he's a good guy, you love him. You turn away from his face and wait. And then...you're in his arms, your head on his chest, he's stroking your hair. And you're just lying there telling yourself it's stupid to cry...don't cry...wondering what the hell just happened to you.

The answer is, you were raped. No means no. Even if you don't fight, even if you don't scream, no means no.

Yes, even if you initiated the making out, even if you've had consensual sex before. No always means no.

Regarding atheist males making better lovers, I'm not so sure. But I know lead guitarists do!

CIJS... it's really hard right now to believe that things will get better. It's the loneliest season again. And I'm all alone... again. And there's no one to blame for that but me. I just want to be understood.

(July 22, 2017 at 5:24 pm)Longhorn Wrote: CIJS... it's really hard right now to believe that things will get better. It's the loneliest season again. And I'm all alone... again. And there's no one to blame for that but me. I just want to be understood.

Summer is the loneliest season? I thought it was spring.

I guess it varies for everybody.

(July 22, 2017 at 5:28 pm)Longhorn Wrote: I guess it varies for everybody.

Did you lose someone around this time of year?

No, it's for a much more shallow, lame reason

Seasons last three months ... loneliness can be a hangaround bitch.

Two words you probably won't say, but they're two words you need to say.

I think you know what they are, and I won't respond until I hear them, after your behavior tonight.