If I had a dollar for every time someone in this thread said 'this is my last post on the matter' and then promptly posted about the same thing just two posts down, I could probably get that mint ice cream scoop I'm eying right now.

Yeah, but then I really stopped. Get the damn ice cream.

(December 14, 2018 at 1:20 am)Shell B Wrote: Yeah, but then I really stopped. Get the damn ice cream.

We use cheese on the other forum, ice cream works too.

I prefer cheese as well but ice cream can be nice

(December 13, 2018 at 2:44 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I have thought that, and I have felt sorry for her. Which is why I knew about it for years and never exposed it. It was my shortcoming that I gave my thoughts on it when it came up in the other forum.

I won't be posting any evidence or making a case about it because I don't want to spill the whole story here, as I said. I also don't think it would be appropriate to be like "Hey everyone, if you wanna know, just PM me!" My involvement in this has crossed a line since my first post about it on AD, and has continued. So this will be my last post on the issue.

If people want to continue saying on here that it's entirely my fault that she left, and not because she got caught in a lie, I'll just have to deal with it I guess.

Nobody has said it's entirely your fault, but yeah deal with people knowing that you are not really the nice person that you try and portray yourself as...
I cant believe that you justify being horrible by saying 'Well it happened to me and I proved people wrong.' Big deal CL what do you want? A slap on the back?

You of all people should know how it feels when people gang up and say hurtful things about you... Becoming one of the gang yourself doesn't show you in a good light, I can remember the person in question standing up for you when you had hurtful remarks thrown in your direction, pity your memory isn't as good.

And as has been pointed out to you... This is the internet not confession.. deal with that.

(December 14, 2018 at 1:37 am)Losty Wrote: I prefer cheese as well but ice cream can be nice

Now all I can think about is cheddar-flavoured ice cream.  I'm not hating the idea.

Boru

(December 14, 2018 at 8:44 am)IWNKYAAIMI Wrote:

(December 13, 2018 at 2:44 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I have thought that, and I have felt sorry for her. Which is why I knew about it for years and never exposed it. It was my shortcoming that I gave my thoughts on it when it came up in the other forum.

I won't be posting any evidence or making a case about it because I don't want to spill the whole story here, as I said. I also don't think it would be appropriate to be like "Hey everyone, if you wanna know, just PM me!" My involvement in this has crossed a line since my first post about it on AD, and has continued. So this will be my last post on the issue.

If people want to continue saying on here that it's entirely my fault that she left, and not because she got caught in a lie, I'll just have to deal with it I guess.

Nobody has said it's entirely your fault, but yeah deal with people knowing that you are not really the nice person that you try and portray yourself as...
I cant believe that you justify being horrible by saying 'Well it happened to me and I proved people wrong.' Big deal CL what do you want? A slap on the back?

You of all people should know how it feels when people gang up and  say hurtful things about you... Becoming one of the gang yourself doesn't show you in a good light, I can remember the person in question standing up for you when you had hurtful remarks thrown in your direction, pity your memory isn't as good.

And as has been pointed out to you... This is the internet not confession.. deal with that.

I can't think of anybody on this forum who's actually the person they portray themselves to be, and I seriously doubt that you or anybody else here are the paragons of goodness that we should all aspire to. I think this issue's already been put to rest when Tibs said;

Quote: so clearly you feel at least partially at fault in some way. That’s fine, learn from the mistake. I’m not going to be retributive against anyone over this.

Let this thing be and move on. There's nothing more to be added than what's already been said.

Looks like they're serving cheese and ice cream so join the party and chill.

(December 14, 2018 at 10:23 am)A Theist Wrote:

(December 14, 2018 at 8:44 am)IWNKYAAIMI Wrote: Nobody has said it's entirely your fault, but yeah deal with people knowing that you are not really the nice person that you try and portray yourself as...
I cant believe that you justify being horrible by saying 'Well it happened to me and I proved people wrong.' Big deal CL what do you want? A slap on the back?

You of all people should know how it feels when people gang up and  say hurtful things about you... Becoming one of the gang yourself doesn't show you in a good light, I can remember the person in question standing up for you when you had hurtful remarks thrown in your direction, pity your memory isn't as good.

And as has been pointed out to you... This is the internet not confession.. deal with that.

I can't think of anybody on this forum who's actually the person they portray themselves to be, and I seriously doubt that you or anybody else here are the paragons of goodness that we should all aspire to. I think this issue's already been put to rest when Tibs said;

Quote: so clearly you feel at least partially at fault in some way. That’s fine, learn from the mistake. I’m not going to be retributive against anyone over this.

Let this thing be and move on. There's nothing more to be added than what's already been said.

Looks like they're serving cheese and ice cream so join the party and chill.

I disagree, I don't think I've said enough.. But for the sake of harmony I'm going to shut up and disappear. Good luck to all concerned with the future of this site.

No disappearing.