new atheist need advice

[Foxaèr]

Reading anything should be more about critical thinking than just blind acceptance.

[SteelCurtain]

 If you had been a Christian to start with you wouldn't be living with this guilt now, would you! Seems that being honest with yourself to start with (before your supposed de-conversion) would have you searching out why you lived so long in a Christian environment and never found the way to Christ. Maybe the real question for you is why are your parents so certain and you were not.
Welcome to the forum.

GC

And here we have it: You didn't buy into the dogma, so there's something flawed with you.

There couldn't be a more succinct summation of religious thought.

[ignoramus]

Agnosticism? Sounds cool in a mysterious sort of way!
Do they wear funny hats when they meet? Hehe

Welcome noob, above all else, have fun here!

[AdamJa]

I became an atheist very recently.  I grew up evangelical Christian.  This past year I did a lot of questioning and searching and thought about joining different religions, but rejected this because I realized the same fundamental problems existed in each of them.  I tried universalism and agnosticism but eventually found myself confirmed in atheism.  Now I feel content in my beliefs but not at all comfortable sharing them with most of the people I know.  I’m very close with my parents and for those who know evangelical Christians pretty well you know that if they find out you don’t believe in their God they will evangelize you for the rest of their lives, even when you stand up for your right to dissent.  I don’t want to face that for the rest of my life with my parents yet I also hate living with a huge secret and really dislike still pretending to be a Christian.  Have any of you been in this situation –any advice?

Wish you the best!

I had no problems like this, but I think, if your parents are worth the love and care you give them, then they should understand

[Alex K]

Agnosticism? Sounds cool in a mysterious sort of way!

I think it sounds like something you need eye surgery for. Man, the Glaucoma is bad enough, but ever since I had that Apoplexy, the Agnosticism on my left eye is killing me!

[ignoramus]

Mine got so bad I actually lost the sight of God as a result! And that other horrid infection in the other eye, "scepticism" ensured I never found him again..

[Alex K]

Mine got so bad I actually lost the sight of God as a result! And that other horrid infection in the other eye, "scepticism" ensured I never found him again..

My Grandma has a chronic inflammatory skepsis. We keep telling her that she needs to go see the doctor, but she doesn't believe us.

[SteelCurtain]

My Grandma has a chronic inflammatory skepsis. We keep telling her that she needs to go see the doctor, but she doesn't believe us.

[account_inactive]

Well, that obviously went right over my head.

[afrist34]

Love it, love it all - I'll wait for now...I put out some feelers and I guess it'll grow from there. Knowing you all are out there too makes it way easier. Many thanks to those who suggested Meetup and Universalism church too. Those seem like smart options.