Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[Little lunch]

No, someone is supposed to monitor their medication but sometimes carers forget or someone is sick.
No-one seems to ever get their arse kicked for not doing a good job around here.

[*Deidre*]

CIJS, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. Or you’ll just be a douche bag in my mind.

[The Valkyrie]

CIJS, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. Or you’ll just be a douche bag in my mind.

When I have nothing nice to say, I usually say nothing.

I just hit people with a hammer.

[brewer]

I fling poop.

[robvalue]

CIJS: I haven't learnt my lesson, I'll do the same tomorrow. Ahhhh!

[Crossless2.0]

CIJS, I'm having an unusually good and happy past few days.

I don't trust it.

[Kernel Sohcahtoa]

CIJS, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. Or you’ll just be a douche bag in my mind.

Well said.  To generalize this idea a bit more, I'd say the following: if you have nothing constructive to add to a dialog, say nothing.  IMO, responding on impulse, especially when negative emotions are running high, increases the likelihood of people entrenching themselves in one-sided mindsets and managing their differences negatively. 

That said, IMO, your post highlights a unique trait of self-discipline, which IMO, is an art-form in itself.  One day, I'd like to be able to master this beautiful and fascinating art-form.

[Joods]

CIJS

I'm so terribly sorry that my back pain is causing you a major disruption and keeping you from playing your game.

How utterly fucking thoughtless of me.

[*Deidre*]

CIJS, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. Or you’ll just be a douche bag in my mind.

Well said.  To generalize this idea a bit more, I'd say the following: if you have nothing constructive to add to a dialog, say nothing.  IMO, responding on impulse, especially when negative emotions are running high, increases the likelihood of people entrenching themselves in one-sided mindsets and managing their differences negatively. 

That said, IMO, your post highlights a unique trait of self-discipline, which IMO, is an art-form in itself.  One day, I'd like to be able to master this beautiful and fascinating art-form.

Thank you    Although, I feel somewhat bad calling someone a douche bag in my mind.

Somewhat. lol

[Fireball]

Well said.  To generalize this idea a bit more, I'd say the following: if you have nothing constructive to add to a dialog, say nothing.  IMO, responding on impulse, especially when negative emotions are running high, increases the likelihood of people entrenching themselves in one-sided mindsets and managing their differences negatively. 

That said, IMO, your post highlights a unique trait of self-discipline, which IMO, is an art-form in itself.  One day, I'd like to be able to master this beautiful and fascinating art-form.

Thank you    Although, I feel somewhat bad calling someone a douche bag in my mind.

Somewhat. lol

You may feel badly, but at some point, you just have to acknowledge the reality. You're a nice person; the kind of language I learned growing up and have applied to people who have wronged me is legendary. And that doesn't include the physical insults like bruises and bloody noses. Before you think badly of me, I'll just tell you that when I graduated high school I was 5'-7" tall and 137 pounds. One interesting thing I learned- a lot of those 200 pound plus foot ball player gorillas have a glass jaw. The smiley to my left should show chipped teeth, to reflect my physical reality. I don't start fights.