If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?

[snow_wolf22]

God doesn't like humans, so He made some humans more capable of manifesting good things than others, so that the people who couldn't manifest good things (or found it extremely difficult) would suffer more as a result.

I mean women should be intuitively smart enough to understand that though, since they're more supreme beings in my opinion. That there are actually DECENT men that are a little off from your standard 5'10 nice face strong built body. Since life is temporary why would it even matter to PICK and CHOOSE?? It does NOT matter, because at the end of the day they will be bones and dirt and there is nothing they can do to stop that when they grow older and wither away, and then one day the whole human race from one event that is absolutely going to happen and we cannot stop it. I think the human race was created in erorr. I don't believe in a god, or a god is consciously doing this, I think the human creation was an un-conscious accidental creation, like all life.

Like does my point make sense though, when I say temporary I mean it's.. life.. is literally temporary. So why does it matter??? Who cares if everything doesn't always work out, a kind gentle loving soul like myself or someone else stuck would get that chance to have and experience the love they want and DESERVE. A lot of these guys with muscles are shallow af. and they alllll probably support spraying of chemicals on food and GMO food. gross, yuck.

[Ahriman]

God doesn't like humans, so He made some humans more capable of manifesting good things than others, so that the people who couldn't manifest good things (or found it extremely difficult) would suffer more as a result.

I mean women should be intuitively smart enough to understand that though, since they're more supreme beings in my opinion. That there are actually DECENT men that are a little off from your standard 5'10 nice face strong built body. Since life is temporary why would it even matter to PICK and CHOOSE?? It does NOT matter, because at the end of the day they will be bones and dirt and there is nothing they can do to stop that when they grow older and wither away, and then one day the whole human race from one event that is absolutely going to happen and we cannot stop it. I think the human race was created in erorr. I don't believe in a god, or a god is consciously doing this, I think the human creation was an un-conscious accidental creation, like all life.

Like does my point make sense though, when I say temporary I mean it's.. life.. is literally temporary. So why does it matter??? Who cares if everything doesn't always work out, a kind gentle loving soul like myself or someone else stuck would get that chance to have and experience the love they want and DESERVE. A lot of these guys with muscles are shallow af. and they alllll probably support spraying of chemicals on food and GMO food. gross, yuck.

You had me until the bold part. Makes no sense. But everything else in your post makes sense. Like I said, sex/dating should be a much more casual and open-ended thing than it is. And I am actually a 5'10 male with a nice face and strong built body.

[snow_wolf22]

Not a problem I've had.

Are you female? Females have no issues finding a bf. It's like just breathing for ya'll, it comes natural. For us men it does NOT come natural It's like trying to hold your breath for 1 hour, (dead), it takes pain and effort. Nothing less. Unless you're super lucky. You HAVE to be born lucky, and by this I mean your genes will be pre-disposed to seeing what I see as hard, as easy.

I think it's extremely stupid that life created women to be women and men to be men. I'm SO ready for my next existence. I can go to bed happy sometimes because I know life is temporary, so all my suffering will end and it'll be as if it never happened and everyone can F off with their "oh I'm not going to date him he looks,,, childish, he looks,, this and that and this and that and bla bla bla bal bal." wtf. little do all these women known EVERYONE that gets to know me likes me. LOL. I'm SUPER excited for after life (: 

[snow_wolf22]

I mean women should be intuitively smart enough to understand that though, since they're more supreme beings in my opinion. That there are actually DECENT men that are a little off from your standard 5'10 nice face strong built body. Since life is temporary why would it even matter to PICK and CHOOSE?? It does NOT matter, because at the end of the day they will be bones and dirt and there is nothing they can do to stop that when they grow older and wither away, and then one day the whole human race from one event that is absolutely going to happen and we cannot stop it. I think the human race was created in erorr. I don't believe in a god, or a god is consciously doing this, I think the human creation was an un-conscious accidental creation, like all life.

Like does my point make sense though, when I say temporary I mean it's.. life.. is literally temporary. So why does it matter??? Who cares if everything doesn't always work out, a kind gentle loving soul like myself or someone else stuck would get that chance to have and experience the love they want and DESERVE. A lot of these guys with muscles are shallow af. and they alllll probably support spraying of chemicals on food and GMO food. gross, yuck.

You had me until the bold part. Makes no sense. But everything else in your post makes sense. Like I said, sex/dating should be a much more casual and open-ended thing than it is. And I am actually a 5'10 male with a nice face and strong built body.

Oh I'm just talking about dating not the S word lol. I've never had issues with S when dating, it always came with the dating.

Yeah exactly dating should be more casual.

ohhh your a 5'10 male with the good looks LOL. Dudeee I got ROASTED by a women saying "oh you're not 5'10? your not the average height of a man.." bla ba bla bla. Women actually care about that. Good luck to you though. I know someone that's about the same and they showed me their dating profile, wowoowow ALL the girls are ALL over him. I showed him my dating profile, it's like barren LOL. I got ghosted with no dates on all of them.

[LinuxGal]

Not a problem I've had.

Are you female? Females have no issues finding a bf. It's like just breathing for ya'll, it comes natural. For us men it does NOT come natural It's like trying to hold your breath for 1 hour, (dead), it takes pain and effort. Nothing less. Unless you're super lucky. You HAVE to be born lucky, and by this I mean your genes will be pre-disposed to seeing what I see as hard, as easy.

Males and females are optimized for very different lifestyles and queens have much more in common with workers than with drones. The problem with drones is they are driven to leave and seek out other colonies. This makes males terrible workers. Workers and queens are focused on gathering food, producing and raising more brood.

[Ahriman]

You had me until the bold part. Makes no sense. But everything else in your post makes sense. Like I said, sex/dating should be a much more casual and open-ended thing than it is. And I am actually a 5'10 male with a nice face and strong built body.

Oh I'm just talking about dating not the S word lol. I've never had issues with S when dating, it always came with the dating.

Yeah exactly dating should be more casual.

ohhh your a 5'10 male with the good looks LOL. Dudeee I got ROASTED by a women saying "oh you're not 5'10? your not the average height of a man.." bla ba bla bla. Women actually care about that. Good luck to you though. I know someone that's about the same and they showed me their dating profile, wowoowow ALL the girls are ALL over him. I showed him my dating profile, it's like barren LOL. I got ghosted with no dates on all of them.

Yes, I am a good looking male of a decent height, and I still don't get with females. They don't want me. I ended up having to switch to guys.

[Silver]

For us men it does NOT come natural

As a man, I never had any problems. Granted, I am a gay man.

[Ravenshire]

huh?

I'm not interested in the S word. I think you're confused??

Bold mine - are you 12?

(my bold)

I think we may have a winner here,

[Bucky Ball]

I never knew "extinct" was an active verb. 
I know a few people I'd like to extinct. 

[Nay_Sayer]

Something stinks...

ETA: Found his similar postings elsewhere, not word for word