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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 1:27 am
(November 20, 2013 at 1:26 am)Lion IRC Wrote: One of the reasons theism worldwide is numerically growing more rapidly than atheism, is because the fastest growing religions and denominations generally dont inter-marry with atheists.
And in parts of the (secular Western) world where atheism is growing, birth rates are not keeping up with those where theism is growing. (The birth control pill is like cyanide for atheism.)
So if atheists keep themselves apart from theists and vice versa, it's not looking good for Team Atheism.
I have no horse in that race. I just wanna ride the hot fillies.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 2:13 am
Michael,
Remember the following four things as you ask her out ...
Christians are stupid.
Christian girls are really stupid.
Christian girls aren't supposed to have sex.
Christian girls suck a lot of dick.
Preacher's daughters however, will let you buttfuck them on their daddy's bible after you snort smack off their tits.
Use caution with the preacher's daughters. Just sayin.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 2:18 am
Lolling all over the fucking floor.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 2:22 am
(November 20, 2013 at 1:26 am)Lion IRC Wrote: One of the reasons theism worldwide is numerically growing more rapidly than atheism, is because the fastest growing religions and denominations generally dont inter-marry with atheists.
And in parts of the (secular Western) world where atheism is growing, birth rates are not keeping up with those where theism is growing. (The birth control pill is like cyanide for atheism.)
So if atheists keep themselves apart from theists and vice versa, it's not looking good for Team Atheism.
Actually birthrates in most westernised and European nations are dropping whatever the religious belief, of lack thereof, of the citizens. It comes from better standards of living and the fact that people no longer need to breed like rabbits.
THe populations of those nations are only truly sustained through immigration - and a good portion of those immigrants are from extremely religious parts of the world - middle-east, Central and South America, North Africa, etc.
And even many of those immigrants are losing their religion quickly.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 5:58 pm
(November 19, 2013 at 9:45 pm)Michael Schubert Wrote: I'm a graduate student studying English at Eastern Washington University, and there is a girl in my French class that I am thinking about asking out. But her Facebook page says she is a Christian, which makes me a little pensive.
What should I do? In the past, I have had women tell me it couldn't work out with us because of the differences in belief. Maybe it depends on how devoted they are to their church. I don't know just how devoted Tiffany (the girl in my class's name) is to her religion, and I also don't know what branch (Lutheran, Protestant, Methodist, Catholic, etc.) she belongs to. My parents have been married for 30 years, and my mom is a Methodist and my dad is pretty much an atheist. Their marriage has been far from perfect (not because of different viewpoints) but it has survived. While both my aunt and uncle are dead now, he was an atheist and she was a Catholic. They were both married for 55 years. So it can work out.
Can you please help me with this? I'd greatly appreciate it.
In order for your relationship to work out one or both has to die inside. Her passion or yours has to step aside for the other person's passion. People can live like this. my parents have for 40 years, but they lead two seperate lives. Looking long term one if not both of you would be happier if you were not unequally yoked.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 6:06 pm
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(November 20, 2013 at 5:58 pm)Drich Wrote: In order for your relationship to work out one or both has to die inside. Her passion or yours has to step aside for the other person's passion. People can live like this. my parents have for 40 years, but they lead two seperate lives. Looking long term one if not both of you would be happier if you were not unequally yoked.
Or you could try not attempting to convert each other and instead respect each other's beliefs (or lack thereof). You know, like sane people do. But I guess the whole "you have to die inside" thing's a credible option too.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 6:24 pm
(November 20, 2013 at 6:06 pm)Optimistic Mysanthrope Wrote: (November 20, 2013 at 5:58 pm)Drich Wrote: In order for your relationship to work out one or both has to die inside. Her passion or yours has to step aside for the other person's passion. People can live like this. my parents have for 40 years, but they lead two seperate lives. Looking long term one if not both of you would be happier if you were not unequally yoked.
Or you could try not attempting to convert each other and instead respect each other's beliefs (or lack thereof). You know, like sane people do. But I guess the whole "you have to die inside" thing's a credible option too.
Exactly. It works for my parents. My mother's catholic and my father's an atheist. They make it work without any of the religious BS going on between them.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 6:25 pm
Quote:Drippy said:In order for your relationship to work out one or both has to die inside. Her passion or yours has to step aside for the other person's passion. People can live like this. my parents have for 40 years, but they lead two seperate lives. Looking long term one if not both of you would be happier if you were not unequally yoked.
Christ on a bicycle, Drippy, take a drink and chill already! The poor kid is just trying to get his rocks off, not get married.
Look kid, whatever Drippy tells you, do the opposite and you'll be ok. Just ask the little lady out. Worst that can happen is either she says no, or the date doesn't go all that well. Just cuz she calls herself Christian doesn't mean all that much. She might be a normal human being or <shudder> she might be like Drippy. You'll find out soon enough. I don't know, but I've been told that if you take 'em on a nice walk in the forest after a tent meetin' you can have one heck of a good time. What have you got to lose?
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 6:37 pm
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(November 19, 2013 at 11:06 pm)cato123 Wrote: If she's a preacher's daughter, you're golden.
But be sure to wear a condom. They get around.
To the OP: There's no harm in asking her out. If things work out, then you can bring up your religious differences. If she's not a Christian Christian, that is, someone who identifies with the whole "personal relationship with Jesus" nonsense and will respect your beliefs, then it might work out.
Christian apologetics is the art of rolling a dog turd in sugar and selling it as a donut.
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RE: The Nicest Christian Girl
November 20, 2013 at 7:26 pm
(November 19, 2013 at 9:45 pm)Michael Schubert Wrote: I'm a graduate student studying English at Eastern Washington University, and there is a girl in my French class that I am thinking about asking out. But her Facebook page says she is a Christian, which makes me a little pensive.
What should I do? In the past, I have had women tell me it couldn't work out with us because of the differences in belief. Maybe it depends on how devoted they are to their church. I don't know just how devoted Tiffany (the girl in my class's name) is to her religion, and I also don't know what branch (Lutheran, Protestant, Methodist, Catholic, etc.) she belongs to. My parents have been married for 30 years, and my mom is a Methodist and my dad is pretty much an atheist. Their marriage has been far from perfect (not because of different viewpoints) but it has survived. While both my aunt and uncle are dead now, he was an atheist and she was a Catholic. They were both married for 55 years. So it can work out.
Can you please help me with this? I'd greatly appreciate it.
What have you got to lose by asking? If she turn out to be a prudish idiot, you are now worse off then you are now.
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