Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[Athene]

CIJS....   

[Ben Davis]

Who is CIJS and what did they do to you?  

Clement Ignaciously Juniper Smithsonsonson


What a wanker.

[Joods]

Cijs-

You are a narcissist. Deep down inside, I knew it but I was fighting against it, hoping that wasn't true. In a period of three days, you have successfully managed to tear apart and permanently destroy this relationship.

Since I can't financially leave right now, I have to stay. But also, I stay because of the kids that I love so fucking much. Nope, I didn't give birth to them, but I have been their mother for the last four years. I AM "in loco parentis". And while you and your ex wife have failed miserably at parenting, the children have flourished under steady, loving guidance from a stepmother who cries nightly for them knowing that if I leave now, they will not be allowed to come with me or see me. They will be left alone, against court orders and will suffer because you and their birth mother are cruel, selfish people who don't deserve them.

You lie and then when confronted with evidence of the lie, make no apology or even offer any sort of remorse. You fail miserably to show emotion unless you copy it from someone else. There is nothing genuine about you because like every other narcissist, you take your cues from the exact same fucking book.

Your wake up call came this morning when I told you we were through. Roommates it is because you don't deserve someone who always puts your kids first and who loves them like they are hers.

Fuck you.

[Catholic_Lady]

When something bad happens to you and ppl around you ignore you because they "don't know what to say."

I call BS. It isn't hard to say "I just wanted to let you know I'm so sorry for what happened and for what you're going through. I can't imagine it. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you."

You ignore, not because you don't know what to say. But because you don't want to be burdened with any sort of interaction with someone who is going through anything out of the ordinary.

Eff that. And eff you. I can't wait to move out of this damn town and never see any of you ever again.

[Thumpalumpacus]

Oftentimes people are afraid of adding to hurt with thoughtless words.

Whatever it is you're going through, I hope it gets better.

[pocaracas]

Eff that. And eff you. I can't wait to move out of this damn town and never see any of you ever again.

I thought you were quite happy with the place where you live...

May I suggest a neat little corner in Europe's South-western tip?

[Catholic_Lady]

Eff that. And eff you. I can't wait to move out of this damn town and never see any of you ever again.

I thought you were quite happy with the place where you live...

May I suggest a neat little corner in Europe's South-western tip?  

Del Rio? No... not much of a fan. I like the weather here but that's it. But mostly just disappointed in many of my friends and acquaintances here for ignoring me when I needed them most, all on the premise of "I just didn't know what to say." I'm ready to move on from this town. One more year left.

[pocaracas]

I thought you were quite happy with the place where you live...

May I suggest a neat little corner in Europe's South-western tip?  

Del Rio? No... not much of a fan. I like the weather here but that's it. But mostly just disappointed in many of my friends and acquaintances here for ignoring me when I needed them most, all on the premise of "I just didn't know what to say." I'm ready to move on from this town. One more year left.

oh... one year left? you already know when you're moving to?
One piece of advice, go for some place far from an airport... planes are way too loud!

[Catholic_Lady]

Del Rio? No... not much of a fan. I like the weather here but that's it. But mostly just disappointed in many of my friends and acquaintances here for ignoring me when I needed them most, all on the premise of "I just didn't know what to say." I'm ready to move on from this town. One more year left.

oh... one year left? you already know when you're moving to?
One piece of advice, go for some place far from an airport... planes are way too loud!

We don't know where yet. But we are scheduled to leave sometime next spring. We should find out where in the fall.

[pocaracas]

oh... one year left? you already know when you're moving to?
One piece of advice, go for some place far from an airport... planes are way too loud!

We don't know where yet. But we are scheduled to leave sometime next spring. We should find out where in the fall.

oh... that doesn't give you a lot of time to house-hunt... or is the house provided for you and all you need to worry is moving all the cats?

When it comes, I wish you the best of luck and hope nothing gets broken in transit.
If I was closer by, I'd offer to help... but... the Atlantic is really big.