(July 28, 2015 at 8:14 am)Nope Wrote: ...
For those who were religious, how has your view of life changed?
Life is simpler and easier. I do not believe in any new objects that I did not previously believe in; I just stopped believing in some objects. The sun is still there, as are trees and rivers and other such things. But there are no magical beings anymore. So the world is more intelligible. It is cleaner and less cluttered.
Also, I became a nicer person than I was before. Less judgmental (some of you, go ahead and laugh!) and more inclined to live and let live, rather than feeling it my duty to bother other people. (Theists who come to atheist sites are asking to be bothered, and typically go out of their way to explicitly ask to be bothered. Also, by posting online in a thread at all, one is not keeping to oneself, and so one is asking for interaction with others. Those who do not want their ridiculous beliefs ridiculed should keep them to themselves. If one asks for trouble, one ought not complain if one gets trouble.)
I no longer worry about death. (I was raised to believe in hellfire and damnation, and if such a place existed, there would always be the possibility that one would make a mistake and end up there.)
I am happier and more content with life. Oh, wait, most of that is attributable to getting married (though I know more than one person for whom marriage was a terrible mistake, in my case, I chose well and am personally suited for it). Still, becoming an atheist first, I was happier and more content with life than I had been as a Christian. That was a surprising fringe benefit, as the deconversion process was extremely unpleasant.
In short, every change has been for the better. I did not expect that when I was deconverting, and would not deconvert (or reconvert) just for that. What matters is whether something is true or not, not whether it is comforting or not. I stopped believing in Christianity not because I wanted to stop, but because it is too ridiculous to be believed by any thinking person who properly examines it. And I could not believe that the truth required protection from examination; only false religions need that sort of protection to survive.
"A wise man ... proportions his belief to the evidence."
— David Hume, An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, Section X, Part I.
