RE: Sexism. The making of a misogynist.
October 26, 2010 at 3:11 pm
(This post was last modified: October 26, 2010 at 3:14 pm by Shell B.)
Hmmm . . . my knee-jerk reaction is to say "What the fuck? I let guys hold the door for me and I don't hate men at all. They're great with a little nudity and metal music."
I'm just kidding, but I do get the urge to say "We're not all the way you see us, myself included." I wasn't around for the feminist movement (which I know endures), my mother was a stay at home mom and I have come to love and respect many men in this lifetime." However, I know that such simple words would never change a person's opinion when it has been being formed for many years. I would never attempt to undertake the task of changing your mind because it seems you are happy in your position.
I expect that you will distrust and dislike me as much as any "real" women. However, I do hope that you can realize that I'm not a man-hating bitch and converse with me as you would a man as much as you can for the purposes of this forum. For the record, if I was at a funeral and I saw a man grieving, my first instinct would be to hug him. My second would be to send over a shitload of meals in tupperware containers after the funeral. I do suffer under the feminine illusion that food is the best way to comfort someone.
Personally, the most other women that I have worked with at one time is one and she was my best friend. I was in a mostly male business before I started writing. Nonetheless, I can picture that very scenario. Perhaps that is why I don't work with women. I do have girl friends, though.
I'm just kidding, but I do get the urge to say "We're not all the way you see us, myself included." I wasn't around for the feminist movement (which I know endures), my mother was a stay at home mom and I have come to love and respect many men in this lifetime." However, I know that such simple words would never change a person's opinion when it has been being formed for many years. I would never attempt to undertake the task of changing your mind because it seems you are happy in your position.I expect that you will distrust and dislike me as much as any "real" women. However, I do hope that you can realize that I'm not a man-hating bitch and converse with me as you would a man as much as you can for the purposes of this forum. For the record, if I was at a funeral and I saw a man grieving, my first instinct would be to hug him. My second would be to send over a shitload of meals in tupperware containers after the funeral. I do suffer under the feminine illusion that food is the best way to comfort someone.
(October 26, 2010 at 3:06 pm)LastPoet Wrote: Have you been in a workplace where there are alot of women? Its a war zone, they peck at each other, make conspiracies, form circunstantial groups, etc... I guess the biggest mysogenists are women. Great quote Min
Personally, the most other women that I have worked with at one time is one and she was my best friend. I was in a mostly male business before I started writing. Nonetheless, I can picture that very scenario. Perhaps that is why I don't work with women. I do have girl friends, though.



