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RE: Some Cherry picked hadiths about how to treat wife.
August 14, 2015 at 7:02 am
(August 13, 2015 at 11:47 pm)MysticKnight Wrote:
mam Sadiq (as) quoting his father,stated: 'Whoever marries, must respect his wife
Bihar al-Anwar, vol 103, p 224.
The Prophet (SA) of Allah also stated:'None would respect women except the magnanimous ones, and none would insult them except the ignoble ones.' In addition, the Prophet (SA) of Allah stated:'Whoever insults his family, would lose happiness in his life'.
Mawa iz al-Adadiyyah, p 15
Hakeem Luqman a.s. stated: ' A sagacious man must act like a child when with his family, and leave his manly behavior for when out of his house'.
Mahajjatal-Bayda, vol 2, p 54.
Imam Ali(AS) stated: 'Cope with women under all circumstances and speak to them well;(and by doing so) it may make their actions correct'.
Biharal-Anwar, vol 103, p 223.
The Prophet(SA) also stated: 'I am astonished at a man who beats his wife, whereas it ishe himself, more than his wife, who deserves a beating. O people, do not beatyour women with sticks because such an act has Qisas (reprisal).
Biharal-Anwar, vol 103, p 249
"ImamAli (as) stated: 'Women are entrusted to men, and as such are not owners of their fortunes and misfortunes. They are with you like a trust of Allah; so do not hurt them and do not make (the life) difficult for them'.
Mustadrak,vol 2, p 551.
The Prophet(SA) of Allah stated: 'O you (men)! How can any of you beat his wife and there-after embrace her'?"
Wasa.ilal-Shi'ah, vol 14, p 119.
Last one is a bit off topic:
Imam Jafar as Sadiq a.s said: The majority of the people of the heavens will be women. Allah knows their weaknesses and will forgive them. Man La Yazher ul Faqih Third Edition Urdu pg 279 hadith 4628
...and nowhere in those (or any) hadiths is the instruction that men and women are equal and must be considered & treated equally. As Alex pointed out, even the phrasiology assumes the inferiority of women. So much for omnibenevolence.
