Some Cherry picked hadiths about how to treat wife.

[Fidel_Castronaut]

Assuming they recognise there's horrible bits in there at all, of course, which many of them don't.

They absolutely recognise them when they see them, they just make a conscious/unconscious decision to forget about them and pretend like they don't exist. That's the essence of cherry picking, I believe.

But some of the theists on this board don't even gloss over them, they just assume it can't be *that* bad because why would it be in the bible (or whatever) if it was? It's all part of the greater good, so even the bad bits are good.