christian looking to understand athiests

[Mister Agenda]

Yeah, to be "explained" by something you can't see or detect in any way whatsoever is a pretty poor kind of explanation.

i know i will probobally never convince you to believe that it was God who do those things but i will always know its true and believe.  do any of you believe in the big bang?

I think most of us accept that the available evidence points to the 'Big Bang' as having happened. If evidence comes up that is sufficient to justify a different conclusion, most of us would probably accept the new conclusion (though it is hard to imagine what kind of evidence could do that given the quantity and quality of evidence for the BB).

No worries on conversions either way, you are welcome to retain your beliefs, people believe that of which they are convinced, and that is mostly a personal process.